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*carlix
writes:hi hope you can help me i have been with my boyfriend for a year and when we got on we get on really well we are going on holiday in a week , last night i found out that he has been on a flirting phone site when they send dirty texts to random women and pictures of himself i confronted him with it and he said hes been addicted to it for years and he cant stop he is only 24 though i just find it really seedy its not just like hes looking at porn hes actually ringing up women and texting them i dont know what to do is this really bad that i should finish it or hep him get help over it thanks for your help x
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reader, person12345  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Well if you love him and really care for him, if you think you could really stay with him, then you can try to get him help. However, don't stay too long. If he sees no problem with it and continues with his "well, I guess i'm addicted. Nothing I can do now" attitude, then run as fast as you can.
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reader, SarasMommy +, writes (24 August 2010):
It's still cheating one way or another. I mean, what are you gonna do if he acts on the things he says to these women? He may have already acted on it. Honey, drop him and never look back. There is someone better out there.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 August 2010):
To be honest, run a mile. He's done nothing to stop this addiction, he's basically cheated one way or another, and he's doing nothing now either. All he's done is come clean and carried on. He's not even worth the bother.
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