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writes:Hi, When I was in year 8 at school a new English teacher joined (Mr T) That year my English left so we had a new one which was (Mr T) that's when I realised I was in love. Something clicked one day I didn't care it's just a teacher the next day I was so in love it Hurt. He knows I love him as I send him a email and my friend spoke to him this is just a school girl crush it's true love. He didn't speak to me after I sent the email and I denied that I send them so the school believed my account was hacked. He speak to me now occasionally when I see him in the corridor but it's not a love way obviously. I just don't know what to do I love him abs I love going tp school because of him so I don't want the crush to stop as it has lasted 3 years nearly. I like it but I just don't know what to do?! I know the consequences of teacher pupil relationships sondont mention that, I don't want that to happen! At the moment... Thanks j. By the way I am 15.
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reader, Morrissey-fan +, writes (24 August 2010):
Haha Mr. T. Right basically love is alot more intense and this is a school girl crush, it will be really hard to get over this but one day it will just stop.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): This is the epitome of school girl crush. Why? Because you don't even know this guy. All teachers put on an act for their students. That is not how they act in their free time, or around their friends. You don't know the first thing about him yet go spouting off about "love"? It involves a deep connection between TWO people, not just some unrequited crush. A crush is just a crush. It can never become love unless you actually have a deep knowledge of the person. What you are feeling is some sort of attraction and are too young to deal with it.
You need to face the fact that it isn't love first, and secondly that he wants nothing to do with you romantically. Take that as hard as you can, because it's reality. If you want to be with him romantically and pursue it, he will no longer want to have anything to do with you. He does not like you, does not want you. Why? You're a student. You're a little kid to him. You always will be. ALWAYS.
Do him and yourself a favor and work on moving on. You will just be causing you both trouble by holding on to this any longer. One foot in front of the other, move on. Find someone who you can actually fall in love with and you will find what love truly is- something so inexplicably deep and amazing and so much better than what you are experiencing now. Something real. With someone who will be able to love you back.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 No, you shouldn't want the teacher, pupil relationship to ever happen, because of that consequence. Let me tell you something. If it's true love, sometimes you have to walk away, for their benefit, even if it hurts you to do so. You know what can happen, how he can loose his job, his license to teach, and all the years in school would be wasted. Knowing that, you shouldn't want that to happen to him, right?
I agree with the other poster. Doing anything else can cause problems, so it's a good idea not to send anymore emails or anything.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 August 2010):
 I pitty the foo who falls for Mr. T. Mr. T doesn't like no jibba jabba about underage girls who wanna get him in trouble. Mr. T says don't be a foo, stay in schoo, and if you want Mr. T to still be around schoo, then you betta not try and cross that line!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 August 2010):
This is just something you have to get over. You already almost got into trouble, so try anything else and that's it. He's even had to be careful because his own career could have been in serious jeopardy. Back right away and focus on your own life. You have no other choice.
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