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*inaBean22
writes:I’m 14 and a half and have never had a boyfriend. Most of my friends have already dated or currently have a boyfriend. It seems like now they are to busy with them and I want that feeling of being loved... and don’t want to end up that girl in high school who can’t get a guy. what should I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): I can understand it must be difficult if most of your friends have got boyfriends and you haven't. You must feel left out as well, if they are too busy with their boyfriends to really spend time with you now. It is hard, I know. But there is nothing wrong with being single, even if your friends are not. Just because other people may be dating, it doesn't mean that you have to be the same as them. It is okay to be single.
I know you would like to feel loved, and it will happen. But it is all about finding the right person, and you haven't found anyone nice enough yet. It must be frustrating, and it must seem like it will never happen for you. But it will, really. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 17 and at college. It happens to different people at different times.
Maybe you could try telling your friends how you feel, and that while you know they have boyfriends you would still like them to spend time with you too. And above all, just believe in yourself. You are fine as you are, and you will one day have a boyfriend. Don't compare yourself to other people, because everyone is different. You are no less of a great person just because you are single right now. It WILL happen.
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reader, MMAfighter +, writes (24 August 2010):
Well im a guy and im 17 and wanting to be in a relationship is perfectly normal. But it is also essential that you dont try to hard. Just find a few guys you like, start a casual conversation and see where it goes from there, pick only one though lol. Make sure hes a good guy and someone you would be compatiable with. Your only 14, you've got your entire life ahead of you. Things like this take time. Dont be sad that you dont have love but look forward to it. That special guy will come around and im sure youll know hes the one. Just dont make the mistake of engaging in sex. Alot of guys are out for only sex. Im currently with a girl and i feel as if shes the one. I am unconditionly in love with her and purposed to her, we are now engaged and setting up wedding plans. Let time take its place and he'll come around, just keep your head up. I hope this helps. Clint.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Don't about it that much, dating doesn't really start till about 16-17 when you get a license to drive. How are you going to go on a date now? Your parents drop you off at the movies to meet your boyfriend? How romantic. Once you get more into high school, meeting more people, being friendly, chatty then you will find yourself a boyfriend. Then once you get to college you can wipe that slate clean because you will meet so many cute guys..it's just on a whole other level. Relax, it will happen.
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