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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year.[[I'm 14]]I'm a virgin.When we talk on the phone, on MSN, and when we see each other I just get SO horny. I just want to jump on him.I know enough about sex...(I have tons of free time so I read everything I can :/ I know I shouldn't do it now, and I know positions and everything though)He gets horny too, we would talk about what we want to do, when we do have sex.And it turns me on so much ! I just want to know how sex would feel =[But I would like to stay a virgin until I'm at least 17 and out of school. He respects that. He never forces me to do anything.One day when my mom wasn't around for like five minutes we made out and he started feeling me up(we did that lots of times before and yes I'm okay with it sometimes I even bring his hand to my breasts)but I got REALLY horny off of that this time and I told him to zip his pants down and take 'it' out, he did(he always does anything i tell him to) and I just barely licked his penis.I felt so bad about it I started shouting at him. Like how could he let me do that and what not.Okay...question.I don't know if we should go for it(sex), if not can you tell me what to do? I can't really masturbate(almost no privacy). What to do when I feel really horny around him again?[So I've tried masturbation before,when everyone went out, with one finger but it didn't go very far..why?]
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reader, tigz16  +, writes (30 August 2010):
please don't do anything till your 17 because your young stop the touchin if it turns your on. if you want to loose it at 17 then do so because its the age you choose it is hard to control what happenes trust i no i wanted to wait and my bf toke so much advantage because i wasnt payin much attention because of stress (he basically kept askin and because i werent thinin i gave in and now i deeply regrete it) i dont mean to scare but make sure he knows and that you are serious and when you loose it when you want to you will be glad you waited
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): You can always get privacy. Try masturbating in public toilets - might be others around so try and get it when its quiet but its privacy from those who know you. More to the point you got time to feel yourself without being seen. You shouldnt be poking in fingers until you are wet. Also, try your clit! (You should know what I mean)
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reader, *julia*  +, writes (27 August 2010):
I agree that you are too young to have sex. I am the same age you are and I would want it 2. But I don't have a boyfriend :(. But I masturbate and it is awesome. I don't finger myself but I play with my clit and have orgasms. They feel good and that might help the temptations. If you really want to wait until your 17, I would wait. That's how long I'm waiting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Wait until you're at least 16 to go all the way. I can understand where you're coming from though, why don't you chat about what each other would be happy enough doing for now? Good luck, you'll figure it out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Obviously you are just too little a kid to go in to all that. You have barely started your periods and reproductive system is yet to mature.
I would say do not indulge your self in to all that you are doing.
Stay virgin till your marriage and give this a gift to your future man. You will be proud of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): If you are really dedicated to stick with your beliefs, and wait till you are 17 then you need to stop making it so difficult on yourselves. Stop touching each other if it gets you really excited. Otherwise things will just get out of hand. Try to avoid alone time like that because trust me, in the heat of it, it can be extremely difficult to say no.
You are young and though it feels like a long way away, you will be happier if you wait it out. I was very tempted when I was your age, and often struggled. But I managed to hold out till I was 17, and it's the best thing I could have done. It gives you time to see if it's the right person, if they are actually worth giving your first time to. Plus you should wait till you are legal.
You're so young, please please please wait, sex complicates things so much, especially when younger!
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