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writes: i was with my guy for 5 years. good times and bad times. we always broke up and got back together. last time within a few days he met a girl he knew from college. he`s been with her for 4 months now. within a week he said he loved her. okay, but why is he niggling me and throwing up old jealousies? it hurt a lot at first and he got great pleasure out of making sure i found out,taunting me at any chance. why on earth does he behave as if we are the same couple in an argument? what gives him the right to be jealous? he`s with someone and says he`s happy and she is a better person. it is bizarre as i have made it clear that due to this i will never go back. he`s 30 and i`m 26.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you. anonymous male, i will do just that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): I am also goin thru somethin very much like this. Whatever this idea of love is,where so quick u can love someone else is falsified by not wanting to be on their own an whoever is there they love them. Consider urself saved. Change ur phone number an end all contact. The person is no good for u or anybody.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 August 2010):
I'm really hoping that you will cut contact with this guy, because he's basically keeping you around like a spare tyre in case this other girl clears off and he needs a bed or something. He behaves this way, because he knows that until you cut contact, you'll take it. So, the answer is to cut this guy out of your life entirely. Problem solved.
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reader, $izZle  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 gurl the way I look at it you are a good gurl and he is obviously a moron. You still have a lot to enjoy in your life and obviously he is not worth it ...
It takes a while to know a person and to tell some1 I love you it would definitely take a longer time ....
I know it was painful it might take a while to get over it but it is for the best you don't wanna live with a guy who would say I love you when he doesn't know what he loves about you ....
as for his taunting and all that blah .... just ignore him
you sound like a smart and energetic young gal ...
don't waste your valuable time and your life on a guy like him pls that's my honest opinion...
you will find some1 better :) so cheer up and smile
all it takes is just a little bit of time and patience ...
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