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writes:Infatuations...I really hate them.So I just met this guy through my friends and I've only seen him like three times but I'm kind of having a little crush on him now and I want to get over it, because this always makes me nervous around the guy and I hate that. I also tend to not act like myself when I'm nervous like that. I do not intend to further this infatuation into a crush or a relationship or anything like that so any advice or words that will keep me in perspective?I know, this might sound so mediocre but we go to the same church so I don't want to feel like I'm going there to see him and putting God second, which is not true but it seems like it's what my mind always thinks about when I'm infatuated with someone.
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reader, MMAfighter +, writes (24 August 2010):
Well your on the right track with keeping god first in your life but you cant let it turn into something else. Just think about things that take him off your mind. Do things with your friends. Walk up and strike a random conversation with someone you've never talked to. You'd be surprised how good this works.
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reader, VikkiDec1 +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Well, you say that you don't want to further this into a crush or relationship, yet you can't stop thinking about him. Why don't you want the possibility of dating this guy? He could be a great guy and like you back also. Try to see him again soon and talk to him more...see what happens, you never know. But, if you want to take your mind off of him for now, hangout with friends, watch movies, go do something fun, invite people to go to the mall, go to dinner. Just live your life, be happy, and maybe something more will happen with this guy!
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