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30-35,
*alo
writes:Hi everyone ...im in online Relationship "8 months" with Girl "16 yrs and 9 months" , i love her sooo much even i didn't meet her in real life, but my problem is she doesn't want there friends to know about me, or when she goes to her friends house or camping or somewhere else she forgets about me ,she has the possibility to email me or text me but she dosn't , i feel like she talks to me just when she feels alone or noone there to talk to ,when i ask her to talk to me she told me tht she dosn't know what to saaaay , i email her and text her everyday,i try to be nice all the time , she is sorry all the time . i love her she said tht she loves me too ,but im realy confused ...does she love me ???
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reader, walo +, writes (24 August 2010):
walo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto be honest ,she told me tht "she is embarressed, for being in a relationship with someone that lives far away, and doesnt want to tell her friends/family about you. She might think that they will tell her to end it with you, and that your not aloud to talk to each other. Or they might call her silly & say that you could be anyone" does tht a big Problem ??? cuz when she talks to me ,she showed me tht she loves me by any ways , sometimes i feel like she is Right , Seriously wwhen she emailed me , her emails make me love her much, when she took new pics she sends to me ,she told me everthing about her even her secrets, i asked her if she gets sick of me , she started crying ,and she said she can wait for me and she loves me ...i dunno what to do im realy Confused
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 You love her and you've never met her? You don't even know if she's who she says she is. Sorry to say but this girl doesn't harbor the same feelings. Sounds to me like you're someone to chat with online when she's bored, or up late at night and no one else is on. Quite possible that she thought she loved you in the beginning but now she seems bored with the fact she can't touch or see you so what kind of relationship is that? You're young so find someone in your own area to have a relationship with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Hey their. Just to let you know, im 15 and i have been in the same situation as you. I 'fell' for someone that lived in newcastle. Well i think i did, im not sure to be fair. But anyways... I dont think she does love you. As much as you want to belive it, it doesnt seem like she does.
The reason she doesnt get in contact with you when she is away with her friends, is probs because she doesnt 'love you' like she tells you. Although it might also be because she is embarressed, for being in a relationship with someone that lives far away, and doesnt want to tell her friends/family about you. She might think that they will tell her to end it with you, and that your not aloud to talk to each other. Or they might call her silly & say that you could be anyone.
Seriously, iv been through it all! I didnt tell my family, only some close friends, and in the end my school found out and i was told i had to end my relationship or my teachers would tell my mum & dad, and thats the last thing i wanted!
Im glad i got rid of him tho, honestly... Since then he has got a girlfriend (who suprisingly lives near him!) had a baby with her, even tho he is 18 & she is 15...
All the time he has been with her, even when she was pregnant,he has still been talking to me saying he wants me back and he will end it with his current girlfriend for me, but he never did... He said 'I need to find the right time' Hmmm! :/ When is the right time to end a relationship though seriously?! Oh well, but my advice to you is, ask her, how she acctually feels about you, and why she doesnt talk to you when she is with your friends. See if you can see her? Just be carefull is you do! Go with someone! Its only being safe! if she still continues like this, well then you might see that she doesnt feel the way, she tells you. So i pressume you will end your relationship with her, and dont worry! You will soon find someone new, it might hurt, it did for me! But it will get easier, and you will find someone that lives closer too you, and loves you for you!
Sorry i babbeld on alot, hope some of this helpedd! (:
Bee xx
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