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*enny baptiste
writes:I am dating this man for 11 months and am 8 months pregnant with his child i know he have a girlfriend and they have a 5 year old daughter but i want him to live here and be with me and our child what can i do?
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reader, bankaccount  +, writes (25 August 2010):
hi he may not leave his girlfriend but if he knows you are pregnant does he want to help raise and support this child ..maybe you wont be together but he may still support you .. just talk to him .. ask him how he feels ..
good luck hope this helps
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 August 2010):
Basically you're stuffed. If he hasn't left this other women in 11 months, he won't leave her. So, I hope you'll make a decent single mother. Learn from this. Cheating men are not worth the hassle. He won't dump her and his other daughter for you, because he hasn't done it already.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Well you have to see how important you are to him. If he was with you just for fun and is actually more in love with his girlfriend, then good luck, but it doesn't seem likely that he would want to move in with you. You can propose the idea. Maybe he'll take it. Maybe he can go back and forth but even then the charades won't last forever. And think about it. He's obviously been with her for a longer time than the both of you. Just be realistic.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Why did you start dating this guy when you knew he had a girlfriend? How would you feel if the roles were reversed? Now was this pregnancy planned or unexpected? Chances are he's not going to move in because he already has a girlfriend and a 5 year old to take care. If he was really going to be with you then he would've ditched his girlfriend and set up taking his 5 year old every other weekend. Sorry but you're just a side item to his main dish.
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reader, answerfromtheheart +, writes (24 August 2010):
 You are having an affair with a man who is already committed to someone else.
How does he feel? Did he promise to help you support and raise the child?
If he is still with his girlfriend, doesn't that mean that he does not want to build a life with you?
What would happen if you told him that you want the two of you to be a family and live together? Do you think he would leave his girlfriend?
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