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30-35,
*annyjam
writes:Hey there i have just started talking to a girl and she invited me out for lunch and we spent all day walking around the city together, afterwards i sent her a text saying i had a great time and she was great. She then replied to this text saying she is currently seeing someone and doesnt want to string two people along, which i totally understand.Then a few days later she invites me to hang out with her, which i couldnt make because i was working, then the day after she invites me to a party with all her friends, long story short we get very drunk and we end up having sex in the back of her car, granted we both agreed not to talk about that again as even though what initialy happened was good just the circumstances in which they happened were not good. This event happened last weekend and everyday since then she has asked if i want to go hang out with her, and i have been out for dinner with her and been back to her place and met her mother, but no physical contact since the drunken night.I mean i know being drunk doesnt just put ideas in your head, to just sleep with someone you dont even like.So what should i do? is she interested in me? and is there really another guy?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 I think you are her default option. Someone ,in her mind, not good enough to date, but still better than nothing until someone "better" shows up- or until she gets a firmer hold on the first guy, supposing he does exist. Wether you do have a rival or not- it does not sound she is much interested in you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 August 2010):
I think you ARE being played by this girl. Completely. If she's seeing someone, then she's a liar and a cheat. If she's not seeing someone, then she's still a liar and lied for a reason. Something is very wrong here, and you need to know where you stand. Get talking to her and find out about this other guy.
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