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writes:I dont understand what's going on :( I liked a girl and as much as i knew she liked me too, i delayed asking her initially because my friends whom i consulted said i should wait and see how it goes. I then realised another of my friends began to get inbetween us abit so i told him that i liked her, so at this point as far as i was concerned 4 people knew i liked her.. I then realised that telling the last person i liked her resulted in that person flirting with her loads and getting between us. I then texted him asking him to tone it down abit because he knew i liked her but ignored me. Recently it had become clear that we weren't talking as much and weren't as close as we had been. I spoke to one of my friends who was very close with her, one of the one's i'd told that i liked her and he told me that she liked my 'friend' that flirted with her loads and asked him out. It was painful enough to hear but he said no so that left me confused. He chose to get in between us and seperate us and win her for himself even though he didn't want her afterall... I also got told that she's been annoyed that i hadn't told her how i felt earlier.. So a few days ago i sent her an email telling her how i should've told her earlier. Her reply was that she didn't like the way i told her friends 'where to go' and i was left totally confused..I had only told one person to tone it down abit and he hadn't, after speaking today it turns out that i have apparently told 4 of her friends to leave her alone, one of which i assume is the flirty 'friend', so that i could spend time with her, which is totally untrue. She really is worth all the hastle that i'm giving her, she's brilliant, but why have people that i've not really even spoken to made up lies to make her think i was trying to control her?? This is a horrible feeling and i want her to believe me when i tell her that i've not said anything like this, but she's probably on the phone with those 4 right now listening to their stories that are all lies.. please point me in the direction i need to face because i'm totally lost )':
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 August 2010):
More likely it was a case that he didn't fancy her but liked the attention.
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reader, owjowj123123 +, writes (24 August 2010):
owjowj123123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe thing is that friend had the chance to go out with her but he said no..? was he just trying to hurt me for no reason?! :(
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 August 2010):
You needed to ask her out, so make sure in future you go for it when you like a girl. That 'friend' of yours played you to get to her, and it's worked. Truthfully, I'd leave her to him. They deserve each other. She's taken everyone's word against you, and your own friend has done the dirty on you. People who treat you this shabbily aren't worth your time. If she was that good a girl, she would have come to you and listened. She's not. There are better people than her out there, and there are better friends that this other asshole. You've done nothing wrong, other than surround yourself with crappy people. The girl hasn't spoken to you at all, and your friend has stabbed you in the back. Neither are worth your time.
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