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writes:ji everyone...i wrote a question the other day about how bad i was feeling because i have a relationship for three years and the last two months i was having and affair and all of the sudden this other men tells me that he couldnt keep seeing me on the down low and that he need it someone that wasnt in a relationship.,that he was catching feelings for me and it was hurting him because he wanted to be all the time with me and i couldnt do it like that because i have three kids ,a pretty stable relationship (until i started messing around with this man)any how ,im new in this site and i really dont know if my question was answered,but today,im writing back because just when i started to feel that i was getting over this heart broken thing and i say that because in three years i was the first time i cheated on my man and i really was feeling this other man too..today we saw each other in the morning and is just incredible how things when down..he finnally have someone that is only dating him and i dont feel bad about that..i mean i got love for him and if he is happy i am happy for him but today he just started telling me how much he was missing me and that he couldnt stop thinking about me and to make it short...he wanted to kiss me and i dont get it because like two weeks ago he was telling me all this things that broke my little heart and today it feels like he dont even remember what he told me ,hes body expressions ,his talk and everything just tells me that he want to keep going with this affair thing...what is going on..i just need some suggestions or something ....because i like him a lot ,i got love for him i desrespected my relationship by being with him and i told myself that i wasnt gonna do that to my man anymore but this man just mekes doubt about that every time i see him and is like every day..please help ..
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reader, CHULA28 +, writes (25 August 2010):
CHULA28 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanx for your advice.,i am already considering that but its hard ..cause i really feel like i havent had time just for me and my kids..i been getting out of relationships and jumping in to a new ones and i really dont want to do that either ,leave the one i am with now to start with the other one..i guess thats another issue that is been bothering me for a while.but any how..thank you so much friend.!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): You need to get out of any relationship that you're not enjoying. If you don't get buitterflies with this person you need to get out, and explain to them why. You've already betrayed this person, so spare them more hurt by being honest with them and getting to where you are happy.
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