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writes:My best (girl) friend and I are extremely close. We talk about everything. I absolutely love her in a best friend way...but the problem is that I think she loves me in a different way. When we hug she pushes her boobs up against me and I can feel them on my chest...then when I get close to her she gets so close to my face that I can feel her breathe. Sometimes, when she sleeps over at my apartment she we will cuddle really close in bed. I like this a lot, (I'm definitely straight)...she initiates tho. Sometimes I feel like she wants to kiss me and sometimes I want to kiss her. I don't know what to do! I like what we do now...but I don't really want it to go any further. How can I be straight yet love being so physically close to her? She totally turns me on!! Should I just kiss her and see what happens?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 I've had an attraction to my best friend, he's a guy, I'm straight. It doesn't mean anything. You're free to do whatever you want and right now I'm pretty sure you want what she wants so yeah, if you feel that strongly about kissing her when she seems like she wants to kiss you, you CAN go for it and see what happens.
I hope that helps.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (25 August 2010):
 I've got a friend who was in your shoes a few days ago. She went for it and hasn't regretted it at all. Her and her friend are exploring something very special together.
I believe we're sexual beings. Not fully straight or gay. Have fun and go for it.
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reader, answerfromtheheart +, writes (25 August 2010):
 I think so. If you are saying that she turns you on, than you may not be as straight as you may think.
Keep in mind that perhaps it's better to talk it over before making any moves that may ruin the friendship. Some girls are more affectionate than others, and you may misinterpret her affection for desire for you.
If you do decide to kiss her, and find out that she does not feel that way about you, then you can just brush it off as "you are so cute I just want to kiss you and hug you" and hug her really hard in a friendly affectionate way.
Good luck finding out.
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reader, RIKI93dw  +, writes (25 August 2010):
I think that you should talk to her about if u want to be straight but if you are not In a relationship of any kind with anyone else then i guess it wouldn't hurt anyone if you did respond to her and maybe experiment if you want to.
I hope this can help
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reader, almc  +, writes (25 August 2010):
You should go with your heart. The only thing is, if anything more happenings you could loss your bestfriend. But you can't help what your heart wants. Maybe you should just talk to her.
Good luck!!
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