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*iaBabe
writes:Hey everybody!! Ok, so I was havin sex with this guy (let's call him Will) for 7 months (He was my second). It was just sex!! And yes I was starting to catch feelings for him but he was in college so when he leave they would fade away. I'm 18, i'll be 19 this friday. So he left the first week of August so we said out goodbyes and we had sex that night. So he's gone to a new state for college (I'm starting in Jan in Orlando) sooo yea. So I was texting one of my other cousins who stay out of state, and I asked for my baby cousin's number who stay in FL with me. And she gave it to me, so were catching up (we haven't talked in like 3 months) and she was telling me about this guy who she really like. And she was also telling me what they did and how much she liked him and I was like well that's good! What's his name? And she said Will!!! And I was like omg! Are you serious??? So my mind went blank. So I told her I would call her back. So I called my best friend and I told her and she was like you should tell her and Will. So I called Will first, (I don't know why ) and he answered as always and I was talking to him like I always do, (When he start talking to a new girl he would tell me) but he was still mad at me because two days earlier I was mad and I didn't want to talk to anybody, so when he call me asking me about school etc, I told him not to worry about me and he hung up on me (which is something he do when he's me) soooo I was like wow this is a small world and he was getting a little rude so I was being rude also (I don't let guys talk to me any kind of way, lol) so then he asked me again, how it a small world and I was like do you talk to anybody? Do you have a gf? And he was like what does that have to do with you? (I had to bite my tongue, lol) so I asked him again. And he said no. So I was like, so you don't talk to a girl named Lisa (Lisa = Cousin) and he was like no, but I know a girl named Lisa and I was like so yall don't talk? And he was like no, I was gonna talk to her. And I was well that's my cousin (my first cousin) and he was like ok, like I said we don't talk. I don't know what label we are. And I was like well that's my cousin and that's nasty and he was ok. And I couldn't really hear him (he was in a car with his friends) and I was like sooo are you still gonna talk to her? And he something rude so I said well your nasty as f**k! That's my cousin!! Are you serious? And I can tell that you don't really care about me, but its cool I got you and I hung up (hehe). So I called Lisa (Cousin) and I was like ok, you know that guy Will you were telling me about? And she was like yea. And I said well me and him use to mess around. And she was like are you serious? And I was like yes! And she was like omg, are you serious and I was like yea and I told her things about him. And she was like wow!!! And I was like I just thought I should tell you, and I didn't wanna wait until or if yall fall in love or whatnot, Soooo yea. And she was like this is a small world. And she was like sooo is he a good f**k? And I was like wtf? And then she was like what? He look like he can f**k! And I was like wow!! Then she asked me did he give me head and I was like omg really cousin? But I said no! (Even though he did, but he claim he only does that to his gf, whatever) and I was like but I just thought I should tell you, I mean you are my cousin, and I didn't wanna wait until anything serious happen, but you can still talk to if you want. Its up to you, because I don't want him. And she said she didn't wanna talk to him or anything like that. Because she said that's nasty, and every time she would look at him or touch him she would see me. And we talked for another 15 mins about it. But my question is was I wrong for telling her? Or what? I asked her was she gonna call him and she said idk, he would have to call me and ect. Sooo yea.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 October 2010):
 Oh Tia darling, there are more men out there even better than Will! And steer clear of 5 minute men..there's also a lot of those out there too. But do remember to protect yourself using means of contraceptive and that you partner is wearing protection.
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reader, TiaBabe +, writes (27 September 2010):
TiaBabe is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo we weren't over! We had sex a week before her left and the last time I seen him was when he brought his mom over my house wanting me to meet her. And my cousin said she only knew him for a week soooo yea. And yea I was jealous I mean he was the second guy I really had sex with. ( My first use to nut less than 5 mins, so I really didn't kn what sex felt like until Will came alone)
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 August 2010):
Will is right what does it have to do with you? Were you guys over when he went to college? If you guys are over then Will has every right for Lisa to be his new FWB since that's what they both want. More power to them. And by you telling her all that, makes you look jealous. She's going to do what she wants. Now, if guys weren't over then I would've told her too because I agree that would be a little weird and gross.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Well basically it's good you told her but the way she was asking questions sounds like she's into him and might go for him regardless. But then u did say that u didn't mind if she got with him so I guess that would be fine if she did, 'sooo yea'
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