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writes:Hey everyone, Well, I'm 15 And I'm turning 16 in two weeks.I've been masturbating since i was 13. I like the way it feels, And i love Orgasms. I'm still a virgin though.But lately all i can think about is how much i want to go ALL THE WAY with someone. Is this normal? Should i go all the way with someone if that's what i want? Or is this just hormones? Please help me. Thanks.
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reader, UptonGirl  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 i feel exactly the same as you i want to go all the way with a guy aswell but i`m waiting for someone special
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): You should wait until you find a guy that you have a steady relationship with and feel so so comfortable with. You are far more likely to actually enjoy it this case as you will be able to tell each other what feels good, what hurts/not good etc. If its just a quick fumble with someone you don't care about I guarantee you'll look back and wish you'd waited cos it won't have been any good! You should also be able to trust the person with your feelings, that they will stop at any point if you change your mind, and that they respect you (won't go round telling their friends your private stuff etc). Also if there are any consequences such as a pregnancy (can happen even with contraception) you will have someone to deal with it as a couple.
Wanting to rush is normal, waiting is sensible. You only get one first tine :)
Make sure to be safe when you do do it hun.
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reader, SeXySaYwAt  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 you should wait, not because u are too yung. Bt bcoz ur body is nt ready. Dnt rush into big people stuff unless u can face the possible consequences. U a young lady, respect ur body, its the only body u wil ever have. Its only normal to start gettin the feeling that u want to have sex. Ur monthly plays a big role in it. U a bright yung lady. Make wise decisions. Dnt be a statistic.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Its very normal to have this on your mind at this age. It will probably be the majority of what you think about. You really have to give your virginty alot of thought and all the birth control and safety practices. I reccomend waiting until you are with someone who you truely care about whatever age that might be. Take a good month to think about what means most to you and if you do decide to do it then be safe.
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