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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Alright so, im a 16 year old girl and sex nothing new to me i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have been intimate before and but i cant tell if ive had an orgasm, like ive read all the signs of having one i never have to pee, like the only thing that happens is it feels good for like 5 seconds and then just just becomes to much and is a turn off, or it feels like ones going to happen but ends up not coming, what do i do im confused and a little upset that im unable or atleast think im unable to reach that point.
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reader, StraightTalker  +, writes (24 August 2010):
To be honest I think what an orgasm feels like is more about perception than physical feeling. I have DEFINATELY had orgasms but it only lasts a few seconds.I get a "nice" tingly feeling in my clit but that is all that it is - "nice". And then I just dont feel turned on anymore. Does this sound like what you get? People describe their orgasms as wild insane full body experiences etc but Im not sure if these are just exaggerations or if some people just have more intense orgasms than others. Seriously, I have no idea what person12345 is on about with the tailbone thing for example! Out of curiosity if you read this again person12345, are you describing a clitoral or a g spot orgasm? I have only ever had clitoral orgasms, I think that the wild ones that people describe must be g spot ones! I have never felt the need to pee or anything like that either and like you, carrying on afterwards doesnt feel nice. I hope I helped even just to let you know you are not alone...and just remember that some women dont get any kind of climax whatsoever so we are luckier than some! :-)
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reader, RobertEvans  +, writes (24 August 2010):
Some women can't have them. Check websites or see a doctor
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Well needing to pee and having an orgasm are different things. When you have your G-spot stimulated you feel like you need to pee. But really your orgasms will mostly come from your clitoris. And I mean an orgasm only does last "like 5 minutes" and then it does feel like way too much. You get super hyper-sensitive after you orgasm. It will feel like a release, and you'll almost always get involuntary muscle contractions in and around your vagina. It sounds like you might. I don't feel like I have to pee before or during an orgasm unless I'm specifically trying to stimulate my G-spot. To be honest, sex is pretty much the worst way to have an orgasm. That's just not how most women orgasm. Most women can only orgasm from digital (fingers) or oral stimulation, some can only orgasm with a vibrator. Do you masturbate? I strongly suggest you start if you don't. You can't really expect to have orgasms with him if you don't regularly start having them with yourself. If you can't do it with fingers I recommend you get yourself a bullet vibrator (I don't recommend a penis shaped one unless your boyfriend is OK since that can just open a whole can of worms) and play with that for awhile.
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