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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i'm so confused if i'm a lesbian or bisexual or something like that , but the problem is i dont want to , i want to be straight . i always attracted by girls , i never have the intense feeling with boys ,as maximum i only feel just wow this guy so warm . i always brushed when i talk with pretty girls and i feel so inconvenience talking with boys, like it is we're opposite sex we shouldn't be so near that it could be spark somehow , i feel shy even i didn't got attracted or like him and my face gone red when boys come near .. girls too(if they are pretty but this happen with all boys)when i look at nude guy pics , that's aroused me(only with hot , good - looking) but i dont feel the same way with those girls pix . but if it is in person , i wouldn't get aroused by nude guys , i would feel disgusted but if it's a nude hot girl comes to me , it would be so lust .moreover i only attracted by pretty girls or a girl i fall in love with the other plain up to ugly girls , i feel disgusted.there you see , it rather than confusion i guess. pls help me find out.ps. i'm sorry for my bad English
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Well, truthfully, the only person who can say whether they are Lesbian or bisexual is you. I can tell you that you certainly have indications that you might be bisexual at least.
However, with most people, it's not that simple. There isn't an "either you're Lesbian, Bisexual, or Straight". There is a wide range of emotions and desires, and truthfully, all it means is that you will fall in love with the person, not the gender.
I know it's tough, but I would suggest not thinking about your "label" because I think you are more than a label, and in your case, the label would be more limiting than enlightening at this time. You are young, and your self-awareness is evolving and expanding. You're on the right path.
Sorry I can't say for sure who you are, but I think as time goes on and you get more experience, you'll be able to know. Good luck!
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