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writes:This might sound like a silly question to all of you here but I just couldn't help but ask. The man as describe below is after me and I am very very tempted.What's the possibility if a cheater of the following traits reforming?1. 31 years old2. Cheated on ex girlfriends since at least 4 yrs ago3. Forms of cheating includes one night stands and dating woman who though he is singleI found out the above through 2 common friends. When I questioned him he saidhe is tired of playing around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): Your odds of receiving a reformed guy are about as good as winning the lotto jackpot (aka a tax on stupidity!) Really...do you want to get in line to be treated shabbily like the other women? Then again plenty of sensible smart people throw money away on the lotto every week...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): oh god.... this sounds so familiar. my ex who led a double life with a wife and kids told me he was single living with his mother and his mother actually backed him up! told me he respected me enough as not to deceive me or do to me those things he did to other women. hahaha couldn't be more far from reality. make yourself a favor and don't fall for him. you'll live to regret like i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Me and my friends made the mistake of thinking a cheater could reform...
And then he did it again. In multiples.
Don't believe it.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Not changing. No chance. He's a player now, always has been, always will be. Run.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 August 2010):
31
Cheated on ex's for at least 4 years.
One night stands
Lied to single women.
He'll never change. Period. DON'T GO WITH HIM. You're not suddenly going to change him into a knight. You couldn't be sure if he was single, if he was committed, if he was cheating, if he was lying. The guy's a louse, and he has you firmly in his sites as the next girl he will bed then cheat on. He won't think you're special enough to change. He doesn't think any woman on earth is special enough. No if's, no but's. He will cheat.
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