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writes:How do you talk about having sex with a guy in a sexual flirty way?
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reader, SueZ  +, writes (24 August 2010):
Well, the first thing I will say is that you won't have to. ANd I would advise against it... unless you want him to get the idea that you are out for sex and nothing more.
Having said that... less is more. Use your gaze, your body language to show him you are into him ( assuming you are in the same room) and always be ambiguous... give hints.
If you are talking about on line, then same rules apply. You might like to say, Mmm I was thinking about you last night... wicked thoughts...
Or maybe you could ask him what he thinks is the most sexy thing about himself... be ready to answer with what you think it is ... like "oh yeah, I can totally see that, but I think it is your smouldering dark brown eyes"
Or... "Have you ever noticed how you do that wicked pout when you are thinking? That drives me crazy.."
You get the hint. He will see you are into him without having to be overt.
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reader, Devept +, writes (24 August 2010):
Make sure the guy is willing to talk about it first. So, kind of throw a little bit of dirty things out, or even try to make up a story and say a couple dirty words in it ( penis, blowjob, vagina ), or anything that would strike a guys mind. And from there you should beable to tell from his response and you can ask him about whats his idea of his perfect first time and from there it should flow right out of the head. Best of luck C=
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