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Had drunken sex but haven't talked about it

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Question - (18 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *ennykay writes:

OK, men, I need your input. I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months now. A week and a half ago, we got drunk and had sex. The next morning we woke up about 930 or 10. Layed around in bed until about 1. Didn't cuddle or anything. He caught a ride home with my mom, but never came and said goodbye or anything. This was a Saturday night. On Monday, he went to the movies with me and my kids, then Wednesday he went to a picnic with me and my kids. Then thursday, friday, and saturday he was acting wierd. Now this last Tuesday, he told one of my kids he wants to go camping with us agaian this summer a lot. I havent really talked to him since the wednesday pic nic. And we haven't talked about that saturday night at all. What is goin on? PLEASE HELP

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009):

ir seems that he realy liked what you have done in bed,

and he either want to get serious or simply want to have more sex with you,

watch the signs and you well know what he is real after

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A female reader, Girly123 United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2009):

Sounds like this guy likes you!

He can say those things to your kid because he feels comfortable around them as they wont judge him like he thinks you will. It's understandable for him not to want to talk about that Saturday night for a few reasons.

You were drunk and he doesnt know whether you meant for that to happen or not. By talking about it, he risks a chance of possibly being humiliated when you tell him it was an accident. Also, by talking about it, it might jsut be an awkward subject for him. (He might be one of those types who just doesn't like talking about his feelings (boys!). But if he's still hanging around and trying to get to know your kids, then give it a chance! The real question is whether you are attracted to him or not. Seems like you are also on a bit of a roller coaster as to whether you are interested in him that much.

Movies and Picnics are kind of a tough break in, it's so family oriented. Maybe he is just a bit intimidated!

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