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I've wanted him for so long, I don't know what to do

Tagged as: Breaking up, Cheating, Dating, Friends, Teenage, The ex-factor, Three is a crowd, Troubled relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (18 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok well i have been after this guy that i met at a party since november when i first met him he made me feel so good inside like woow!!even though i had a boyfriend i started talking to him. i figured out he had jus broke up with his girlfriend the day of the party (hes the one that asked me for my number)on text messages he would say you should break up with your boyfriend i could do you better and stuff like that. stupid of me to believe i broke up with him.

then after a while we started talking more and more to the point that wooww like i am fallin in love with him then boom out of no were his ex and him start going out !!! and we were talking wen this happened my heart was broken:( then a few weeks passed they broke up then he starts talking to me again and i fell into his trap its just like i have this connection with him i dont know what it is i just can be myself and tell him everything. then after like 2 weeks they go out again!!! i tryed to stop talking to him and i did then they broke up the final time.well i hated his girlfriend soo i got revenge i started to go out with the guy that she went out with when she cheated on the boy (the one i like )then i saw him(the boy i like) outside so i kissed my boyfriend rite in front of him and he saw it then went in front of the girl and kissed him..

next day in school he comes up to me and says wow you really go out with him and im like yea and then later that day he texted me telling me he wants me back (even though we really didnt even go out yet) and i talked to him that whole night and broke up with my boyfriend then on april 20 09 at 2:46pm he asked me out!!! wow you can not imagine how happy i wasss well it only lasted 10 days he didnt even try in the relationship ! only in the begining cus we went to the movies together but after.. nope nothing he cared more about his friends than me so we both broke up. he likes to say hes the one that broke up with me.

now its june 17 and i got over him breaking my heart and havent cried for him but we talk as friends and he always reminds me about are relationship and like i cant get over him like i need him in my life he says he still likes me alot just that he doesnt think its our time. . sooo finally the question how do i get over someone that i have tried to be with for 7 months?and how do i get him to want me?how do i stop thinking of him? help me pleasee

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009):

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thank you so much everyone for the advice

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009):

bYou cant make someone like you if they do then give them a chance dont beg but if they dont then they dont, dont force them and run after them just go with your heart...at the end if you really like someone dont just stand back and do nothing go for it ask him out do anything but just dont stand theree okayyy whoever is reading this i hope you understand what im trying to sayy xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009):

ive been there

its not worth wasting ur energy over him

sometimes there are NO answers, just this guy doesnt know what he wants

dont waste another second over him..he isnt worth it

xx

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