If I give him some time, what if he doesn't even think about me?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My ex boyfriend dumped me about two months ago. I have made mistakes like calling him, txting him and even begging all that stuff right after we broke up. Then I backed off for a bit and decided to call him once a week. Everytime I txted him or called him he always responded. When I left him a msg saying "be happy with your new girlfriend" he called me back and sounded so upset. "Why are you keep thinking that I am having so much fun,cuddling, kissing and having sex? Huh? Are you going to see your boyfriend today?" I didn't know how to respond. I apologized for leaving him such a msg after I got trashed. Now I completely cut off communication because I realized me drunk calling him or txting him make me to have harder time. Because all day and night I try to figure out what he is thinking. I really want him back.He told me that he wants me to be more independent and six months or so later we might get back together. But I don't want to have false hope. when I tell my friends they say they think that he still cares but very confused. Should I give him some time? I am afraid that since I don't try to call him, he will never call me or even think about me. I need help.

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