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writes:My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We have 2 kids. Sex is wonderful, when we have it, 1 to 2 times a week-work, kids, busy schedule. My question to both men and women, my wife has hinted at the use of sex toys. Apparently she has been talking to some girlfriends and talk about the wild times they have. My wife wants me to use a strap on dildo on her. I am a little over 7 inches but she want to try out a 9 inch or bigger. She also talked about wanting to fuck a dildo while blowing me. I don't know how to go about this but the thought of it really gets me going. I guess it's the strap on that worries me. Any guys out there use strap-ons on wives and is it normal?
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reader, mickey303  +, writes (17 June 2014):
My wife and I have a very active sex life, and yes, we use a strap-on on each other. She mentioned once that she would like a double penetration so rather than let some other guy in our bed I thought why don't I wear the strap-on. She loved the idea and now we enjoy endless sessions pleasuring each other. Mention this to your wife.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (18 June 2009):
 You are sitting on a gold mine...Its the most conservative that go wild when introduced to something that they find great...Best of luck...GET THAT SYBIAN...Your wife will thank you in more ways than one
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all who have replied so far. I will definatley consider it since I know my wife is more than willing. I thank her friends, whom she grew up with, for getting her curious about it. Truth is, I always wanted to ask my wife about bringing in some sex toys into our "sex session". But with her being on the conservative side I did not know how she would take it. But I had never considered or though about a strap on dildo. More along the lines of a vibrator to watch her. This makes it easier now.
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reader, laura585 +, writes (18 June 2009):
I think it's definately normal! You dont know how lucky you are to have a wife that loves you and is comfortable enough with you to share her fantasies. You say it gets you going, and it obviously gets her going then why not give it a go? If you both enjoy it and no harm is coming out of it then it doesnt matter wether someone else thinks its normal or not. Also if it wasnt "normal" there wouldnt be so many sex shops in business! ;-) I say go for it.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (18 June 2009):
Yep, If you can use marital aids to spice it up....nothing wrong with it. Look at it this way...rather the latex boyfriend than a second boyfriend.I commend you for listening to your wife. May men may consider this a huge blow(no pun intended) to their ego, but it is not. She wants added stimulation.Consider yourself Lucky your wife feels comfy enough with you to broach the subjectInstead of a strap on or a normal Dildo...consider getting a Sybian or something like that. She can ride that and give you head at the same time...chicks love those things when it gets redlining on the rpms
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