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writes:Me and my husband been married for about a month now. We're very happy together but I never let him see my breasts cause I think they'll too small (A cups) and I don't think I ever want him see them. My husband begs me to let see them in dark and Im being unfair, am I?
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (20 June 2009):
 If he cared that much about what size they are, why would he have married you??? I'm sure he can tell whether you're big or not even when you're clothed, and he STILL wants to see them =]
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 Talk to your husband and tell him how you're feeling. He probably loves you a lot and I bet he'll reassure you.
I don't understand why anyone would feel self-conscious about having a small chest. It's not like small or large chests are inherently unattractive or inherently attractive... what is a turn on and what is not depends on the man. It's all relative.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (18 June 2009):
 Your husband doesn't think they are to small, or he wouldn't have married you.
Self-doubt can happen to anyone, but I think it is unfair to doubt the man who said "I do".
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (18 June 2009):
 I know that your husband is not crazy or unreasonable. He's seen your breasts under your shirt and I know that he's not expecting them to magically grow a few cup sizes when the shirt is off. As all the other posters have said, he loves you like crazy, he married you, he committed to loving you and loving your breasts just as they are. Go for it!
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (18 June 2009):
 I fully agree with Laura 585. Showtime!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): as a male, size of the breast doesn't matter to me at all.to be honest I prefer them small.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): He might like them small. Some men say they like to be able to put their hands round them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): I agree with everyone else.
Seriously I am only a A cup too and know exactly how you feel I am self concious about mine.
But I will tell you the guys who have seen mine (or what I have) are just as turned on as by my breasts as much as they would be if they were looking or touching some woman with larger ones.
Honestly we have nothing to worry about =)
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reader, Harry Castle +, writes (18 June 2009):
 I agree with the others entirely.
Remember, as the years advance, your boobs won't turn into belly-warmers (or, horror - knee-warmers)!
He loves you for what you are, not for what you're not, so celebrate that fact and enjoy your loving relationship.
Like PK, I'm not fussy about size at all: the only thing that matters is that you get pleasure from having them fondled, caressed, etc.
And, you can wear lots more daring and sexy dresses/tops than your larger sisters, who risk a "wardrobe malfunction"!
Harry.
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reader, laura585 +, writes (18 June 2009):
Well im sure by seeing you with a shirt ON he knows your no Pamela Anderson, if it was a huge deal to him he wouldnt have married you. Obviously it's not something that bothers him the way it bothers you. I know letting someone see you completely naked for the first time is a weird but fun experience. Once you get it over with you can feel better about it. I'm not in his head, but I can almost guarentee he's not going to leave you just because he finally sees your breasts! He loves you! He married you! Now show that man your boobs! :)
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (18 June 2009):
 Hun he's your husband he loves you and everything little thing about you!
shouldn't matter about your boobs size that's nothing!!
he loves you for the person you are and everything about you that you do. just try to relax with him more hun he's your husband after all :).
hope this helps.
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reader, PureKadence +, writes (18 June 2009):
If you're married, there's no reason for you to be so self conscious about it!
The greatest thing about marriage, is that he loves you, so you can be yourself in front of him. You don't have to worry about small things like breast size.
Now personally, breast size really doesn't matter to me. Quality small breast are much more attractive then awkward large breasts.
And for most guys, while large breasts may be a turn on, small breasts are certainly not a turn off. He won't be less attracted to you because your breasts are small.
And of course, since your married, he will eventually see them. You'll feel much better and freer when you can be comfortable with him seeing you naked. I think in the end it will be better for you to get this over with sooner then later.
So I would suggest you not worry about it, let him see you naked, because you should know for a fact he'll still be just as attracted to you, possibly more, and he loves you so you should be comfortable in front of him.
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