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writes:My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year and i love him but it´s weird. We always have ackward silences and when ever we´re together it´s either we´re making out or other things but it never involves like sitting down and talking. i love him and i love him a lot but i dont know how to talk t him. when i do, i feel stupid cause he makes it seem like he´s not interested. he only shows a romantic side when we´re ending a fight. and it feels like he says those things only to manipulate me to come back to him. i don´t know what to do. Should i end it? or should i try working things out and waiting for it to work it out? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat if he doesn't like doing those things with me. He always tends to go to his best friend which everyone and their mothers know that his best friend is infatuated with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much you really are helpful.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 June 2009):
 How about going some place where making out isn't easy? Like to a museum? Football game, baseball whatnot.
Have a picnic at the park ( can eat, talk, "play" and well make out) but it is fairly relaxed.
Go to the movies. ( no watching girlie stuff! ) Talk about hte movie afterwards.
Does he have any hobbies? Interests? Do you? Shame them.
Don't worry about feeling stupid. Pick a subject and talk to him. Something you are passionate about. A book, movie, historical person, a place... Learn to listen as well.
There is nothing wrong in having a little bit of silence every now and then. To be honest, that use to be on my "BF" test. (when I was younger) a guy would be serious BF material if he could sit next to me and not make me feel awkward if there was silence. Quite a few failed the test I might add lol.
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