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writes:I'm pretty sure I'm in love with a girl I barely talk to. I think she's perfect but sometimes I doubt she knows I even exist. I know I should tell her but I've only got a year to do it and even then there's no garuntee that the relationship would actually happen, let alone start. Should I tell her? And if so, how and when? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Oh I see! Of course it's no hassle, I understand a bit woder now!
Yeah well then you've known eachother a long time and obviously were together at one point, so it's worth asking her if she feels the same way you do? as I said before, try getting good friends with her again, it might help?
You don't have anything to lose if you explain that you're not expecting a relationship, but just want to know if she wants the same thing you do..
I hope this works out! (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Lewii.
Firstly I wanted to say thanks for the advice, it makes perfect sense. But I feel I haven't made the situation clear. The truth is that we have known each other for about 5 years now and were close friends at one point. But 3 years ago I asked her out and she said yes(to my surprise and occasional bewilderment!) After a week we sort of discovered we didn't have enough spare time for each other and had to call it off. She seems to have moved on since then and we have drifted apart but I can't get her out of my head, wondering if she thinks of me at all or if she's seeing someone else now. I don't mean to hassle you but you obviously know what you're talking about and I'd appreciate any further advice you could give. Thanks anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): Hm.. I have an idea regarding people who say they're in love with someone they barely know. My opinion is that you can really like someone, but the feeling can't be as intense as love until you know them quite well.
But still, obviously you like this girl so maybe you should just tell her you like her. You said yourself you don't have long left, and you might regret never saying anything.
Try getting to know her a bit, chatting to her and then maybe you can admit to her that you like her?
Best of luck x
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