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writes:What would make a guy friend not talk to you for a couple of months then suddenly act like were friends again? It's almost summer and I won't see him all summer. Maybe he feels like he won't talk to me. He never texts me or talks to me online just talks to me at school. He's all buddy buddy with me after ignoring me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): Male anon.. i didn't get the impression that they were ever together in more than a friends way.
OP.. There are so many different reasons.. So i'll just provide more options but of course none of us can really know the right answer.
Do you think he could have developed a crush and shyed away?
Or for some reason, due to you both being busy, he got less and less oppurtunity to speak with you and as time went on, he felt as though he coudn't speak to you anymore because it has been so long and would just have been weird at that point? But then he finally got the courage up to just approach you again and start over?
Did he find some new friends at shcool and he got busy with them?
Or maybe one of those friends didn't like you and he's not mentally strong enough to be hisself no matter what friends think, so he ignored you, but now that shcool is ending, it wouldn't matter becuase they wouldn't see you talking?
Cass gave a good suggestion. Gfs and jealousy can lead to weird and unfair things.
um.. i guess that's all i got!
~SY.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): you know i think he feels bad. Most guys are stupid and immature. I know this because im a stupid and immature guy. We dont really understand the meaning of true love. There is 2 reason he could be doing this. First, he could be trying to get back together with you. Or he's trying to use you. You must found out before you do something risky or something that will lead him in a wrong direction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): did he have a girlfriend during the months he was ignoring you? if so she may have said something and gotten jealous of ur friendship with him. maybe he just needed some time away from other people to think about things. or maybe someone said something to him that would make him ignore you. im not really sure. hope that helped
-Cass
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