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writes:How can you tell your in love? I'm pretty sure I am but iv only been seeing someone for about 2 months!! Do i tell him?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emjo +, writes (18 June 2009):
 I think this one is your call, people fall in and out of love all the time, it normaly happens early on and you know its for real if it lasts...
If you decide to tell him be prepared, pick your moment carefully and dont be too set back if he doesnt return the comment, people obviously dont love at the same time...
Dont worry, if you say it and he doesnt id refrain from saying it too much to him incase he gets scared, maybe dont mention it again until he says it... or after another month or so.
Also you need to concider it could just be lust you feel, i mean you need to be careful not to go breaking peoples hearts by telling them you love them then changing your mind.
Just make sure your sure... trust me hunnie you can just tell, but often for me this realisation doesnt happen until after we've broken up sadly :(
Anyway best of luck and i hope you stay in love, its a nice feeling whilst it lasts, so make it last as long as you can :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): Personally, whenever I have been in that situation I wait for the guy to tell me. That early in the relationship if the guy isnt sure yet how hes feeling about you that might scare him off. Thats just my opinion. However if he loves you back, he will let you know when hes ready for it. Guys tend to realize that a bit later then us girls so I find it wise to let them be the first to say it! It will mean more to you anyways to hear it come out of his mouth the first time!! Some might not agree with me, however thats just how I feel about the situation! Good Luck!
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