I can't orgasm, and it's ruining my relationships

A female age 36-40, *ickichici writes:

So a few months back my boyfriend and I broke up. The main reason was sex or lack thereof. I'm ok-ish with the breakup...we are still friends. Anyway the reason we hadn't been having sex was I didn't want it. I wasn't enjoying it as much as I used to. I hadn't had an orgasm in months. Since then I slept with this other guy a few times and it was okay but eh. I still haven't gotten off. I am so frustrated. I don't know if I'm broken or if I need more emotion. I don't know what to try. Help.

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