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writes:I have this girl that i been with for goin on 2 years as of sept 3rd and i made mistakes in my past like cheating and lying and i had recently cheated in april but im really done this time with playin with her i love her and want to be with her how do i prove my love to her and make her trust me again? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn +, writes (19 June 2009):
 What goes through a mind in these situations is, "Why am I important to him now, where I wasn't before?" This can add confusion. It's like saying, "if he loves me, he wouldn't cheat."
How to gain her trust back? Your action. What you don't do and do do. You can say all you want that you won't cheat, but doing so in the past says different. So your actions of caring for her, and no cheating will begin building that trust.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (19 June 2009):
 It is not up to her to forgive your stupuidity and selfishness at all. You lost any rights to have any say in the relatiuonship the moment you screwed somebody else.You said you are done "playin her"...Bullshit. Thats the most clear indication that you have only remorse because she found out.She is a fool to believe one word out of your piehole.You will stop until her guard is down, and you'll do it again. You are a child...grow up and take some responsibility for your actions.
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