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41-50,
*araann12345
writes:My partner of 4 years cheated on me with his now ex, unfortunately she got pregnant by him. Anyway today I had to go to the doctors as i'm not well and i asked him if he could pick me up from there. We arranged it and all was fine. I came out of the docs and he wasn't there so i called and he said he waited in work and was leaving now. He told me to start walking which i was angry about because i have pneumonia and at the mo find it hard to walk too far. In the end i had walked home by the time he saw me and i was really angry. I shouted at him for not being there like i asked and he through some fruit that he had brought for me at me. He then got in his car and drove off. He won't answer my calls and i'm so worried that whenever this happens that he goes to her house.
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reader, Dalmatian  +, writes (19 June 2009):
The ex is going to have his baby. The baby will need him
since he is the father. Drop him - let him be a happy
family with his ex and the new baby. They do not need you
in the way. Move on find and someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): You deserve a medal for staying with him after he cheated on u- and got her pregnant!! what is the situation? is he still in contact with her? does he wana be part of the child's life? How supportive is he of u compared to her? Think about all this and maybe you should start debating whether hes worth it. But i know how it is to be ill and therefore not wana be alone and move on. Good luck xxx
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reader, Emjo +, writes (18 June 2009):
 Im sure he isnt at her house, i think the real problem here is how he treats you, he doesnt seem to care about your needs. He should worry about you if your ill not make you walk, i mean it would be understandable if he had been hung up at work or something but the fact it was arranged and he didnt come really rings warning bells in my head, also the fact he physicaly threw things at you, you need to be careful this doesnt sound like a healthy relationship to me, however i've only seen a snapshot so i could be wrong, but from what you've said there i'd watch your back no matter how long you've been together...ccc
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reader, kelly44221 +, writes (18 June 2009):
 ok well i have to say i dont blame you for feeling this way i would feel the same way. my current boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and every time we fight he does go to her house. she wrote him a letter and told him she lost the baby so when we fight i feel the same way. i know he goes there. and im sorry you probably dont want to hear this but yours probably is too. he should have picked you up from the doctor that is just messed up
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 June 2009):
 Let him go. He isn't worth your time. You can not change him into a caring man, if he isn't one from the start.
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