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30-35,
*abyminow
writes:so me and my boyfriend are having trouble. he is so obsesive, like annoyingly obsessive. for example he texts me as soon as he wakes up, which is way earlier than i wake up and if i dont reply to his texts he keeps texting and texting and texting until i reply. not only that he will text my best friend and ask her why he isnt going to text me. i know that they are friends to but it is still weird. i really like him i just dont know what to do. and i have alot of guy friends that i hang out with but he gets really protective and jealous and stuff, and i mean yeah its cute but i still like to hang out with my friends. then he goes and calls some other girls pretty. i dont know what to do, like should i just stick with it and just try to keep talking to him, which i tried but its not realy working, or just break up with him? i really do think i like him alot i am just scared that i will eventually begin to start to resent him. i need help please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): I'd say give it a couple more tries with talking to him about everything that bugs you. Communication is a life-saver in relationships. If you can't get through to him no matter how you try to express it, then at least you tried and I think that then it will be time to find someone who doesn't irritate you so much. Becuase yes, irritation like that does lead to resentment, and then snappiness, and then continuous argueing over basically meaningless subjects. ~SY.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): I'd end it.
The last time i was in one of these relationships he got even worse even when he said he'd change.
Just break it off
Youre yoing u'll meet other guys no point in dating now.
good luck and stay a virgin.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 June 2009):
Tell him that you will dump him unless he stops acting like this.
Give him one last chance to stop texting and being possessive because you are right, that is not on.
If he carries on then dump him. He had his chance fair and square.
Good Luck!! xx
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