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Online guy seems great, but can I trust him?

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Question - (18 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok well, there is this guy i met on the internet he's 19 and well im 14...and...when i first met him he lied to me about his appearence sending me a false picture (i found that out on google images)so i caught him and he said that everytime he would try to tell me he just couldnt bring himself to. He also told me that it was for safety reasons ( ugh i would buy that ). Ever since that time we still talked and everything saying that we love eachother and such. ( which i do. it seems he's a really sweet guy, but i said seems) He always tells me how is day was, how his friends are like..i even talked to his older brother and he has talked to some of my friends. He has never talked sexually to me and well...i just dont know what to do...i always wonder if he still lies to me or not. i dont even know writing this is pointless...please help :D

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntHun i wouldn't trust him i mean he's already send you false pictures.

you don't know what else he could be lying about. i mean have you ACTUALLY seen him on web cam or spoke on the phone? to prove that he is 19 and not like 50?

does he REALLY have an older brother?

you need to be SO careful he could just be a pedofile. you never know in this day an age you do need to be so careful with whom you speak to now. i wouldn't trust him if he's lied once what makes you think he has stopped lying? you've never met him you hardly know him he could be lying to you about his age and everything.

Hope this helps hun be careful :)

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A male reader, Livelife United States +, writes (18 June 2009):

I think you have to be extremely careful when there is an age difference like that at your age. Although it's not always a bad thing, not everyone has good intentions. Obviously he's lied to you already, so worrying that he may again is valid.

I don't know if you can trust him. You know him better than we do, but in my opinion, no you can't. If someone starts out lying to you like that, I would be unsure what else they lied about too. Like I say, age differences don't always have to be a bad thing, but it doesn't sound like he's playing the honesty game with you, so I think you should be careful.

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