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writes:So me and my BF started dating a couple of weeks before skool let out. I haven't talked to him in two days in fact most of the time we only text goodnite. He keeps telling me he's gonna try to talk to me and stuff but her never does. I haven't seen him in awhile eithe cause my rents won't let me go out on dates. It's frustrating cause I really like this guy and my rents are just too overprotective and now I think he's like giving up on our relationship. I just don't know what to do if to text him and just say hi? I've just never been the chick to make a move cause i hate to be like bugging him but does he think I may be ignoring him?? IDK wat do about or relationship should i just brake it off? or just talk to him a bit more?? Any advice? Ask me if u need me to clarify. =].
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): Sure, contact him. I don't think you will get any answers if the situation continues as it is. And I don't think you will come across as bugging him. You are supposed to be dating, right? So therefore, it is definitely acceptable to make contact with each other!
So give it a go, and see how he responds. But if he doesn't seem interested as such, or makes more excuses as to why he can't talk now, then it might be that he just isn't that interested in a relationship right now. But either way, at least you will know.
Good luck, I hope it goes well. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): how are you guys "dating" if you can't actually go out? I'd call him before you completely give up. There's no rule about who has to contact who. Especially if it's you who can't go out, he might be feeling like you don't care about him if he's ALWAYS the one to contact you first. I'm not trying to be a hyper-feminist or anything, but girls have a right to make the first move! I was the one who asked out my now boyfriend and we've been happily dating for 4 months now and are still going strong. We contact each other equal amounts. Just call him. Seriously. Don't text, call! Don't sound needy or clingy, and NEVER say something like, "why haven't you called me?" Just chat and set up a time to meet. Why not just tell your parents you're going to hang with friends? If I were him and the girl I was seeing never contacted me first, then yeah I'd feel ignored and probably stop pursuing her.
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