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female
age
51-59,
*yownecho
writes: My ex and I just broke up a month ago. He is on a dating site. Is it ok for me to be on the same dating site? He is on one of the best. We are not trying to get each other back. He was on this site first. I haven't put up my profile yet.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (14 June 2009):
When a relationship ends, all bets are off and you are free to do whatever you wish without considering the other party. Don't look at his profile, even if it pops up. Just get on with your own life and have fun.
(Of course if your both using the same site to make oneanother mad or jealous then your going to have to reap what you sow, and potentially hurt others along the way, If this is the case, then it's probably best to choose another dating site and avoid oneanother completely)
Aunty Em xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): Honey it's not like he got dibs on it. It's just a dating site and everyone is entitled to it. There are tons of other poeple on there, you may not even run into him. I've never been on one so i'm not positive, but go ahead!
And if he comes at you saying "hey i was here first!" then that's just silly and immature.
Go enjoy yourself.
~SY.
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