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writes:Oh Gosh....i've never done this before but at this point i'm pretty much desperate. I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now. Of course at the beggining everything was nice. I never had a boyfriend b4 so i wanted to take things relly slow with him.But he was always pushing it to something more serious. He wanted a relationship and he was always telling me to meet his family. B4 him i never had sex either.And he understood that. So we've been always fooling around.Antil one time i just freacked oud because the condom broke.And i told him that i dind't want any more sex for now. He insisted for a while.But then he say that if i don't give him what he wants he'll just find someone else and get attached to them. I didn't care. He apologize a lot after that.So again we were dating. Eventually it happened.We slept toguether for the first time.After a couple of months he took a trip to the country where his dad is from.With his dad. And i stood with him family to keep them company.When he came back i asked him and he admited being with someone else there. I broke up with him.But 2 monhs later i call him back for a booty call.And he confesed that he loves me but his dad makes him go out with women.He pays women so that they both can have one.He stared to smoked pot after i broke up.He said he really wanted to changed.And i'm the only one who understands.But he left his Hotmail open once. And i saw that he sent an e-mail to a girl saying that he has arrived and if she can tell him about her schedule to meet him.And it was so painful to read that the girl told him that she wanted to see him but she needs to wait till her boyfriend leaves.I can't leave him because i can't stand being alone. I just can't. And he says that it's just the past.But i can't seem to forget.And i want to leave him so bad. Becaue he prefers his friends over than me.But then he crys and says that he love and he doesn't want to loose me.Why can't we just let go!!...I feel so miserable.Thanks for taking the time to read this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): i know it will be hard, but in the long run it would be alot better for both of you if you leave him. you will think like you cant do it, and you will probabably feel really horrible for a while, but i promise it will get better and then you will be free to do as you wish.
your worth more than what hes done to you, and he's taking you for granted as he knows you will always be there. dont let him. move on, you will find somebody else and you be happy again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): babe! i think it's best if you leave him and move on yea you'll be down in the dumps for a while but you'll eventually meet someone who does make u happy, yea it's gonna be difficult but with the situation your in it's abit obvious you's arent gonna be together forever so the longer you put it off the harder it's gonna be, Unless you love him with all your heart and he loves you then you gotta face facts and realise yous' aint' gon work out. And when your with him you could be out finding that guy who does make u happy so your wasting time, Sorrie babes' i hope your okay and i have helped
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