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writes:I have recently had a huge argument with my boyfriend which resulted in him threatening to throw me out. He said I was over emotional and was pretty harsh about my reaction when things went wrong. I have made the effort to change and it seems to have worked, I try and 'not sweat the small stuff'. However hes just told me hes planning to go away with a group of people who have a habbit of cheating, and drug taking, I have expressed my concerns over this group before, and have been honest about it, i do trust him but he is easily lead and the last time he came home from one of these times away my camera was full of pictures of half naked women and my boyfriend returned absolutley drug fuelled and took a week to recover. He had mentioned it before and said he wasnt going, but now hes changed his mind, I darent say anything for fear of causing another argument but i really dont like the idea, and we have been struggling for money and I know it wont be cheap, just to top it off.I feel in between a rock and hard place, I have just been away overnight to see a band, but it was with my mum and I did not spend a lot as my grandparents funded the hotel and I paid for the tickets when I was in a better financial position.What do I do.
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reader, 789456 +, writes (14 June 2009):
 explain to him the financial situation and tell him how you feel, that you are uncomfortable with him going there, but dont ever raise your voice. tell him to try and understand where your coming from. how would he feel if he was in your situation? i hope this helped.
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