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writes:Well Basicli im 14 and female and i think im in love with my english teacher who also is female and 9 years older then me . i started having feelings for her since december and ever since then i cant stop thinking about her ..and i do talk to her in school alot about life things and she gets on with everyone but she said to me that Im the only one she actually really talks to about anything ..she feels she can trust me and i said that back to her ,because i do feel i can trust her and whenever i see her in school my heart beats faster and i be so happy . She has alot in common with me and i really enjoy talking to her . whenever i walk past her in the corridor she gives me a beautiful big smile wich i never actually see her giving to any other student . I Feel diffrent around her and i like it , because whatever i have to say to her ill just say it and it looks like she has feelings for me too because whenever im in her class she lets me get away with things and im sure she wouldnt let anyone get away with the things i do . But she treats me diffrent from everyone else .She also asked for my email address and i did give it to her and she said dont let anybody get a hold of her address. But really i just hope she knows how i feel . yes i know it is illegal for there to be a teacher and student relationship but you cant help who you fall for right? Do you think she has the same feelings that i have for her ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): hey dude, I'm sure she appreciates the friendship and bond. But you've got to see that you are still young and a teen and 14yrs old, you have to realise this and know that nothing can happen. If you want something to happen then wait until you are legal. Being a teen sux, we know. But to be clear with you, I agree you can't help who you fall for , but you are a teen and prolly going through all those hormone changes and stuff.
Sometimes knowing everything isn't as great since we never want to be dissapointed. So just try to appreciate and enjoy the friendship you two have.
If something (good) happens between you two, please don't tell anyone. You will destroy yourself and her.
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reader, poppysecrets +, writes (14 June 2009):
hey,
i know how you feel i'm in a similar position. it's a tough one because it is illegal. i mean, if you're really serious about this woman and your feelings for her then you should wait until you leave the school you're at now and then tell her because if you tell her now and she doesn't have the same feelings back it could make it really awkward.
but it sounds like you two have a really special bond :)
so yeah good luck with your situation!
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