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writes:I have been hooking up with this guy friend of mine for 2 years. We met through mutual friends. Aat the time we met we were both going through relationship problems. He had just got a divorce and I had just moved out of my ex boyfriend's house. Well he recently took away the key to his house he did it in a way saying he needed it for something. Anyway do you think this is his way of giving me the boot because he didn't know how to tell me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): Your just hooking up, not in a relationship so you techinically can't be dumped. He probably met someone new that he wants to be serious about and doesn't want you showing up unannounced. He doesn't want to screw up something that could turn into something good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): Who knows except him? He might have a girlfriend since you describe your relationship as Hooking Up I assume you are a friend with benefits....there really is no dumping if you are not a girlfriend..he probably just expects you to understand...since he has made no real commitment to you, wouldn't you say?
Why are you settling for such an arrangement? It seems that you are feeling worried and rejected which indicates that you probably thought this was something more serious than it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): I'd say your gut instinct could be right. You could ask him calmly, but be prepared for the answer you might get. If you keep yourself busy, try not to worry about it, you might find it gets resolved by itself.
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