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male
age
30-35,
*ndrew loves hali
writes: okay so i broke up with my girlfriend. she couldnt stop doing things that were messin up her life. and i didnt feel like takin care of her anymore. so after breakin up with my girlfriend i got my friend Hali back. which is great. me and hali are very close now. i really like her and i think she liks me as well. but there's another girl. her name is haley also. se she is always yellin at me but she told me she likes me. weird i know. anyway Hali and Haley are bestfriends. me and Hali cant go out cause of haley. what should we do. i know hali doesnt want to hurt her friend but shes waited so long for me. so should we just put our feelings aside for now. or go out even if it hurts haley?
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reader, love-struckxo +, writes (14 June 2009):
I think that you and Hali should talk to Haley about your feelings - before acting on them.
Hali and Haley are best friends, and she shouldn't just jump into a relationship with you, without having her friends blessing first.
Just tell Hali to explain her story, and tell her she's waited a long time for you, but she won't go out with you, if Haley really doesn't want you too.
I think that with a calm conversation, Haley will put her feelings aside, and let the two of you be happy..
at least, I hope!
xxx
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