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36-40,
*olkadotmanda
writes:okay, I'm insanely attracted to this guy that I work with....but we're having some complications getting together....I've invited him out to a group outing at a bar three times, the first time, we ended up going to a restaurant, and he asked me to go back to his place(I didn't!) the second time he came, but it didn't get far, we talked...and thats about it! The last time he didn't show up despite saying he'd be there! I know he does have feelings for me, because he's told my friend, and I always catch him looking at me, and he will occasionally flirt and joke around with me. I've already told him that I like him, but he's never confessed anything to me, I think he is having a problem with a few things....1- I used to go out with another guy that we work with( it was a year ago, and didn't last very long)2-Our age difference(he's brought it up a couple of times,I'm 22 and he's 30.)3-He doesn't like people at work knowing about his personal life.So because of that, I don't want to bring it up at work, but it's so hard to get him alone, I really need to get him alone, but the way our work schedules go, its been kinda difficult,like We were both off Thursday, but he had class until 10pm and then he was supposed to meet me and some friends at a bar, but he was worn out from finals so he fell asleep, which I understand, but now I have to wait for another opportunity and I don't know when that will be.....another thing is, he isn't even going to be working with me much longer as he just graduated from college and is looking for another job, which is good and bad.....Okay, well I guess what I'm really looking for is just general advice on the situation, any comments would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): "I'm insanely attracted to this guy."Don't you think you're losing your head with this guy. Apparently, he just wants you for your body so all the rest is fluff.If he really cares for you he'll make time and contact you!
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