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writes:I am about 3 months pregnant by my x boyfriend. I found out that I was expecting about a Month ago, which is about the same time its been since we broke up. He will not be with me or give me "another chance" because he said i have hurt him so bad. when I only got on him for things he done that i didnt aprove of. He wants to be there for the baby but i want to raise this baby with him...together..i love him and i dont know what to do to get him back into my life for me and the baby..and i did get a little mean but he brought it on but i dont even care about that anymore. i will hand everything to him on a silve platter i just want him back.
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reader, aggressor6  +, writes (14 June 2009):
First of all, what is it that he did that you didn't approve of? If it's unfaithfulness or a criminal act, then don't even bother chasing after him. He's not worth it. Your kid will be ashamed of him.
But if that's not the case, you need to work things out with him. The love you once had now has a responsibility entailed to it. You and he should be open-minded now that you're welcoming someone else in a few months. He's a man, and it's usually part of our pride to have some sort of power. Make him feel this and if he falls short, be accommodating enough to accept it and help him get back on his feet. If he's shown that he can be trusted and won't do anything stupid, then you just have to believe in him and respect his decisions. Your child needs both of you so if you're good persons, work together and raise another one of your kind.
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