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I don't know why it hurts, I shouldn't even be bothered

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Question - (14 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi im not sure why this bothers me

my ex who i split with a while ago used to work at the same company as me.

whilst we were there, there was several people who he would bitch about and say he hated etc etc.

the other day one of my closest friends who is in contact with him as friends on facebook says these people are now on his friends list but its concealed so only friends could view it.

why should i be bothered but it hurts that he told me one thing and now does the opposite-why was he always a two faced git ? any advice appreciated x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009):

You are still in the getting over him phase and that's ok. It's good that you think he's a git. You are moving on, you are moving away from him. You are gaining confidence in yourself to see that you are better than someone who is petty, two faced and immature. He probably only wants to be friends with them on facebook so he can bitch some more. I'm sure you now think, thank's be to crunchy I'm well rid! It's ok to feel annoyed, it's relief in another form on it's way to you. Have the feeling, talk it out and move on!

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