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writes: I'm starting to notice that my relationship is one sided and we do thing when she wants to do them, including sex. I was with her the other day and we were in the house watching TV and I wanted to get intimate with her. She tells me no we will have sex the next day, bad enough we have sex like once every 2 weeks now if that. Now we have to schedule when we have sex, what kind of crap is that. Who schedules convenient times that are ok to have intimacy with their partner; the only time that we get intimate is when she wants it. When she is in the mood then it full steam ahead and she better get what she wants or else. When I ask it’s always an excuse, like I don’t like quickies or I’m tired. I don’t ask for much from her but damn I got needs to. It like everything is about her, maybe this is why in the last 5 months of her last relationship her former boyfriend didn’t do anything with her because he found what he was looking for someplace else.
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reader, garcypher  +, writes (15 June 2009):
What you got to realise is that women have all kids of hormone imbalances some more than others, especially at that time of the month. Some don't care for sex as much as others and some are nymphs and can't get enough. Look on the bright side; you got something to look forward to when she schedules it. Get some baby oil and let her rub that on you a few times in between, works great.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (14 June 2009):
 To me, the real problem is the fact that the relationship is one sided. If it were not, then your woman would take more than just her needs in consideration.
You have to fix that. I don't think finding sex elsewhere is the way to go.
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