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writes: I'm in love with my best friend and i cant help it. I want to tell him but I dont want to ruin our friendship. He is the perfect guy for me, he's funny, smart, cute, romantic and well perfect for me. He's constantly flirting with me, hugging me and sometimes kissing me and well I can't complain but I just really want to know what to do cause I have no clue what to do, he broke up with his ex girlfriend cause she didn't like me and I broke up with my old boyfriend cause he didn't like him.P.S: You will probally figure out I'm not very good with relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help.I just had to tell him so i sat down with him and said what i had to say turns out he likes me back!!WOHOOO !!!!
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reader, baby_tinney  +, writes (14 June 2009):
 ok well I has this same problem a few years back.My best friend in the world I didnt want to lose him but I had to ask what if.I held off for a while and watched him go from bad female to bad female.Finally I was like to hell with it if it workds great if not plzzzz let the friendship last.We are now married and he is still my best friend.
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reader, EllsworthT  +, writes (14 June 2009):
Dear Clueless,
Obviously, you are both attracted to each other, and unless he is gay, he will sleep with you if you give him the chance. Since neither of you is very aggressive, I suggest you go home together and have a few drinks until your inhibitions melt away. Don't get so drunk that he can't perform, or you can pretend the next day it was the booze and not your feelings for another that led to the romp.
Don't worry about destroying the friendship. If you eventually break up after forming this relationship, you can be sure your friendship would have dissolved away too. (So don't be too hard on yourself when you do break up, which will probably happen.)
Expect him to get a little "cocky" for the first months--it's the testosterone surging through his system. That's normal, just be nice and have fun!
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