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female
age
41-50,
*een
writes:My boyfriend is ignoring me all the time, I cant understand why, once we moved to live together I found him different person, not the one that I love , he always off from his work to his computer , then to take a nap , and he spend all the night watching movies and I am waiting him , the next day is the same and the weekend as well , I always try to talk to make conversation , suggest new plans . but no response , I asked him always why you are quite why you change ,he says I am the same I still love you , very clear , also he says I cant entertain you all the time , as he entertain me one hour a week , and he play it smartly , assuming that he loves movies and hate to be destruct while he is watching , very true , but not 24 hours movies , also , he doesn’t care about my issues , stuff , problems , if I come to him , he push me away in smart way ,if I call often no answer, if text message , no reply and he enjoys to putting me down saying , my career better than yours , my stuff are more expensive and quality than yours , your things are old , ugly , he used to call me pretty , beautiful , not any more, he calls me idiot, or other names I cant say it here. I try to ignore him giving him some space in his life ,he ignores more, even if I said I am bored , he says go out , do something, clean the house , so rude ,,, and he enjoy picking on me . Our relation it was for me like dream , it became nightmare , I love him so much , but this relation makes me sad more than happy ,, I wont to break down , but the sadness can leave me I cant stand him .. strange feeling, is it love ? is it ? What shall I do ? please I am broken heart
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reader, jeannie812  +, writes (14 June 2009):
Are you my ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend? He did that same Bait/and Switch on me. It was terrible what he did to me. Here I owned my own house. He talked me into living with him. He bought a bigger better house. Once moved in... he treated me like a slave. He came home on day one and got in my face. That was how he treated me. In the face. He expected me to keep his house just so. He expected me to trim hedges, mow lawn, shovel snow. He told me he would buy me a pitch fork for Christmas. He wanted me to turn the compost. He wouldn't take me anywhere. Yet he was sure to tell me how he went out with his buddies from work. But, when he was with me, he sat and watched tv. He liked to watch a lot of nudity and I'm not into looking at women. I'd watch tv in the other room. It was separate lives. Yeah, the one thing that me and that guy had in common was we both needed a man around.I was miserable. I had no where to go. It was entrapment.I finally looked at relocating to an inexpensive area of our state. I bought property and moved.I finally asked him why he dislocated me, when he wasn't interested. He got angry and said I got to live in HIS house. He really thought that his house was so special that I should have shut up and been the servant. It really blew me away. Even if I didn't own a house. Let's say I had an apartment. Still! He would have displaced me. It is wrong! He lied to an independent woman. Then expected her to be dependent on him, while she independently took care of his needs. And expect nothing for herself. I believe they call that a dog. Good luck sweetieYou got your answer. It will hit you when the time is right
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