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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Any advice on how to ask my mum about going on the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together a while now and we're ready to have sex. But i'm 15 and i don't know how to ask my mum about going on the pill. Also i don't know the places where we can. Anyone got any advice? ... (46 words)

Is this size small for a 5 foot 5 inches tall man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - is a 6 and a half inch,2 inch wide penis small for a 5 foot 5 man?... (18 words)

What do women prefer in intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - do women prefer slow intercourse,fast hard intercourse or deep penetration? ... (10 words)

Is she rejecting me? She said our friendship was more valuable than a relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My dreams are finally coming true, I finally got the girl I like to talk to me! We are so close, to each other, but she said this "Our friendship is more valuable then a relationship, I like u but id rather be ur friend" is she rejecting me? What should I do?... (53 words)

Are there condoms for wider in girth men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - where do i get condoms which are wider in girth than normal ones but are hust average size because when i wear them i fill them up with my girth... (30 words)

He says he loves me but doesn't really show it. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok.. So I've known my "bf" for a long time. We used to date about 2 years ago, stopped talking. And now we started dating again. We have been dating for about 2 months now. He is nice and everything. But he has a problem. He doesn't call me much. Like I call him and he is like ... (310 words)

Question for the girls, will she give me another chance? She broke up with me because of depression.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi,i have a question 4 the girls!,some1 recently said 2 me that a girl will always tend to give thier ex another go before starting somethin with someone new,i am goin through this situation where my ex split up wiv me cuz of home life,basically she is depressed but has said ... (114 words)

I'm feeling bad about the huge fight with my best friend. What should I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so me and my best friend got into a huge fight last friday. She was making me look like an idiot in school to make herself look better around this guy that were both talk to. I got mad and told her sister who had picked up the phone that I didn't want to go to her shor... (215 words)

I need last minute confidence on giving him my lap dance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey guys help needed! I need last minute confidence on giving my lap dance. i'm planning on giving him one tomorrow night! i just know i'll feel silly, as though i'm acting sexy but he's just thinking i'm totally not sexy, or just over-doing it. really in need of confidence, a... (75 words)

Why do I keep going for the wrong kind of guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Why do i keep going for the wrong kind of guys? I know I am young, but this trend is starting to worry me. The first serious relationship, he turned out to be violent and broke my nose and slashed my arm with a knife. The second serious relationship, he was doing coke withou... (316 words)

I'm faithful to my husband, but have been chatting online with an ex. Should I see him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 14 years and I have been 100% faithful. He does treat me well, and does everything as far as housework and cooking. Here is my problem. I spoke to my ex boyfriend like 3 weeks ago, and have been almost everyday. Not in person, but on the ... (149 words)

How long should you REALLY wait to take a pregnancy test?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - How long should you REALLY wait to take a pregnancy test? When I was taught, they said 4 - 6 weeks. But everyone on here seems to be saying "in a week" or "leave it 2 weeks"! Which surprises me. Does anyone have the actual medical knowledge to tell me how long you should leave... (66 words)

Will I ever find another girl like her, who loves me as much as she does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone. So me and my gf of a year and a half have been having alota problems. Its got to the point where im not happy anymore and iv been thinking about us breaking up for a while. Two days ago i mentioned us breaking up and iv been trying to break it off slowly to ... (173 words)

I have HPV, would it be better to stop having sex, or can we still? He might have it too...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Iam 19 years old and i have Hpv. i know that you cant know who you got it from because it can years to know that you have it but how many years can it take or about how many or the most it can take? i have a partner of four years and i want to know if it would be better if we ... (77 words)

Confused and clueless about sex! Need advice quick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating off/on for 5 yrs! and we've been talking about sex alot and he has condoms but me and him are prolly ganna have sex this weekend. he wants me to give him a BJ but ive never done it b4, my brothers gf said she said the 1st time she ... (178 words)

Tell me, why would they get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my sex partner has a babymom that comes to his house on the weekend. his son is 11 years old witch he loves and will do anything for.on the other hand he is involve with a younger lady which he loves to make LOVE to, he seems to care about the younger lady more than the baby ... (195 words)

What should I expect when I go and see a counsellor/therapist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i was just writing to ask, what should i expect when i go and see a counciller/therapist? I dont want to go into detail about why im going to see one, i just want to know what will happen there? Thanks, tasha x... (47 words)

He keeps looking at me, does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be really good friends with this boy and i really liked him as in more than a friend ( still do). For ages he would look at me and smile at me. I could turn round suddenly to find that he was looking at me. When we went on this trip last year on the ferry to t... (287 words)

On the pill for health reasons, haven't stopped bleeding for 17 days!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a athlete, and because of certain performance problems while on my period, my doctor and physio advised that i go on the pill. I Started my period on the 12th( they normally last between 5-7 days, and are quite light) i took the pill on the fist day like the doctor said. And ... (110 words)

Is it really easier for a guy to stop thinking of his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - do men really just move on or is it just a front. is he going throught the same hurt and sadness that i am going throught, why do men make it seem so easy to move on after a break up. And how do i move on when all i can do is think about he and that he is not calling and how ... (81 words)

He hasn't spoken to me since I brought home a new kitten! Was I wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So my relationship with my boyfriend has been dodgy for some time. We have been together 10 years. He's away a lot on business so our time together is really limited. To cut it as short as possible, I am an animal lover and would give any creature a home if I could. I had 2 d... (247 words)

When will she tell me why she left?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - when will she tell me why she left. the reson she gave was i have nothing left to give. but that is not a real reson there must be more to it we have 2 kids that i have at home with me. she live with a work mate a man and say that it aint how it looks and im not with him? but ... (67 words)

I've chased men away before, now I'm interested in a new guy and need some advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

- I really need some advice on my problem. Well, Im 24 and Ive got good job and lots of friends and Im pretty. But Im single. Now, when I meet boys I like, inside my head Im telling myself to play it cool, but my actions and words do exactly the opposite. I chase them til t... (200 words)

What's keeping me from telling my best friends who I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Heyy Why can't I tell my BEST friends who i like ? If they are supposed to be my best friends (as i have 2) I should be able to tell them but something holds me back when it comes to it. Do i trust them ? x... (54 words)

Any ideas on how to get my husband to communicate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 7 years and lately it is pure hell. My husband seems angry all the time and wont talk to me about anything. He gets mad if he doesnt like the breakfast I made and will continue on being mad the entire day and wont eat anything. Very childish i know. He ... (144 words)

She broke up with me because we live too far apart! How do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Right, I've just been to see my girlfreind for the first time. she lives about 200 miles away, i really liked her and she really liked me, i came home and cried on the way back. she broke up with me today because we live too far away and we'll only see each other once ... (95 words)

How can he move on like that and just stop caring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married woman for about 4yrs i have two children and i am having an affair with a man who has been married for 18yrs and has two children as well. We both work together this is his part time job he works full time during the day elsewhere. We started flirting and talking ... (288 words)

Condom came off during sex, I'm on the pill too, should I see the doctor or wait for my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles; I have a problem which could be very serious and life changing. My boyfriend and I decided to have sex, [Im on the pill and we used a condom] The condom came off and we didnt realise until afterwards. I know the consequences are serious ... (98 words)

I think he wants to love me, but isn't capable of doing so!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have had ongoing issues for the full term of our relationship. We have been together for almost 8 years and have a beautiful daughter. The way he is behaving towards me is causing doubts in my heart as to whether he really loves me? When I tell him this, ... (181 words)

I am really confused... my boyfriend has said he'll turn over a new leaf.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Been in a relationship for about 5 years. We attended the same university. In school,he asked me out and always told me he loved me.I decided to give it a shot after a year of being friends with him. I told him i needed time to fall in love with him, though, i still agreed to ... (403 words)

Does he like me as more than just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Heyyy I think that this boy really likes me. He has me on his personal message on msn. We talk every day, and he is really sweet. Recently I was asked to watch a horror movie at the same time, by him. Does any of this show that he likes me as more than friends? wb xx... (60 words)

What is marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I got alot of questions please help i need answers for all of them what is marriage? What is the purpose of marrigae in Judaism? Here is an satement what are aggree, and disagree points 'Marriage is only a pice of paper you might as well live together ' Here is an ... (181 words)

I fell for one of my best mates. I don't know how to ask her out.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well I guess I'll start from the beginning... About a month ago, I fell for one of my best mates, also female. I've told her and I think she feels the same way. I would rather not ask her, as I've inquired about her current crush, and she still likes her previous crush. I... (94 words)

I trust my boyfriend but I don't trust other people.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a weird situation, I've been with my boyfriend for 2years and I trust him but I don't trust other people. I don't like it when he looks at other girls because i'm scared he will leave me for someone else... I really don't know what to do x... (50 words)

My boyfriend has been acting distant. Is it me being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been acting distant these last 3 weeks but he hasn’t told me why. He is the best boyfriend I’ve had. He told me from the get-go that he didn’t like talking much, yet at the same time he always wanted to sort things out if either of us had a problem unlike my ... (787 words)

He's more experienced than me and I need some tips on improving my technique

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been on three dates with this guy and on our third and last date we finally made out. I know that in the next few dates it'll lead to at least oral sex if not actual intercourse. I'm very self conscious about my abilities for oral and intercourse because I've only done ... (168 words)

A scream of orgasm? Or only a gasp?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Is noisiness during sex overdone in films/dvds etc? When me and my girfriend have intercourse we do enjoy it but usually the only sounds we make are some gasps during the act and when I orgasm.... (41 words)

I.m afraid my parents will oppose me living with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend thinks I'm too negative when it comes to finding a solution to a problem. I always say it won't work. When I face a problem, I always want to leave it until I really have to face the problem. I also think about the worst scenario when I approach a problem. I feel... (135 words)

Should I ask my (female) ex back out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 15, and finally accepted I was gay about 18 months ago after a lot of soul-searching. Last July I fell for one of my mates, and managed to get up the confidence to ask her out. She saif she felt the same way, and we sort of persued a secret relationship (only my best ... (301 words)

Odd period following unprotected sex, pregnancy or STI? I'll go for a test if you think there's a chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I slept with a boy a few weeks ago and we didn't use a condom (yes i know it's stupid so please don't lecture me) the thing is now though, i was late on my period by about 2 weeks but now i've come on but it's more like a black colour and literally the smallest amount going! I ... (107 words)

Is there hope for a future relationship with her, even though we're not in contact now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i was wondering wot anyone makes of this. i was sort of seeing a girl for the last month and for some reason i totally fell for her straight away. its so weird because im really picky and i told myself id never let myself get in2 someone too much because i was with someone ... (498 words)

I want to end my friendship with my unreliable selfish mate.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi everyone, ive got problems with my best mate. ive made my mind up im finally finishing our friendship. ive put up with her for years and now realising the same as with loser guys dont change neither do mates! i dont need/want to have her in my life anymore. the problem im ... (431 words)

Should I forgive him after his drunken cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I caught my boyfriend on cheating. We were at friend's wedding. he was utterly and almost unconsciously drunk. He didnot know who I am when I entered the room he was with this awful girl. Trousers down, she was correcting her clothes, not sure what exactly they did... (391 words)

I'm getting bored with my girlfriend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My name is Anthony, and I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly two years. Without getting too graphic, certain area's of her body have changed since I took her virginity and we started having sex casually. I don't find her as attractive anymore (even though she has gotten ... (60 words)

Why do we have to reach the 'break up' part for them to realize their true feelings? And is this just me or does this happen to other people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have had this situation happen with me with most of my serious ex-girlfriends.... One of us will break up with the other, but we will still remain in contact for the one of the usual reasons (still like/love one another, aren't finding anyone else in the moment, don't want to ... (736 words)

First time oral tips needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - it's my first time giving oral how do i make it good for my boyfriend without making it obvious that it's my first time...any tips thanks xx... (27 words)

What should I do to keep my relationship fresh and get his attention more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been a relationship for 6 months: 2 months of staying close and 3 months being far away. We have a long distance relationship because I have to work in another country for 6 months. I have 3 more months to work and then I'll be back. Normally, I keep in touch with hi... (218 words)

Guys, have you broken up with a girl, then want to get back together? Girls, am I delusional or should I find someone who is ready for commitment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Posted this earlier but no replies...really hope to get some advice here! My ex-bf and I had been together for almost a year. I want commitment, he doesn't want commitment....thus we did the classic girl nags at guy for commitment/guy is unhappy and withdraws ...vicious cycle... (283 words)

I want him back but there's religion, third party and character differences.. help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My BF and I for 2 years always fight for petty reasons. We belong to different religions. We have huge character differences. His parents have long wanted him to severe ties with me but he risked it all for me and still pursued the relationship. We love each other, we admit. W... (271 words)

She won't talk about sex and I'm extremely unhappy and thinking about ending the relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm almost 18 and my girlfriend is 15 we have about a 2 year 9 month age difference and we have been going out for about 10 month now. Now on to the question I feel that I'm a very sexual person and I know she's a little younger then me and not experienced as a I'm so ... (202 words)

How can I find out if my bf is meeting girls on the internet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been told my boyfriend is meeting girls off the internet. how do i find out if this is true?... (21 words)

I can't seem to put the past behind me and I'm scared that if I do I'll be back to square one. I need help but don't know where to turn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm avoiding relationships and I admit I need help. (Well at least I said it). I'm 30 now and really want to be in a loving relationship, marriage, kids the works but I feel I'm past the point of no return. I can't bring myself to go through more heartache. I do... (934 words)

I've never really gotten over my ex! I'm engaged but still flirting with the ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for 3 years and we are engaged but i have never really gotten over my Ex. And whats worse he i like my best mate, and hes friends with my bf. I love my bf to death, but i keep thinking of my ex, and everytime i see him i just want to drop my bf and be with ... (80 words)

What do I do about Ms. X? Is my boyfriend cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help, anyone, please? Before my bf and I got together, he was wooing his friend, MS. X. She told me that he’s dumping him and he don’t want him. I know she’s still hung up on him coz she flirts with him in front of me. It’s not like Ms. X and I are really close friends.... (166 words)

My orgasms aren't really that great...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Okay I'm having quite a big problem here. My orgasms aren't really that great, nd ive tried experimenting but it seems like they're just over so quick! its like, 5/6 seconds of a nice feeling, but then i dont even feel satisfied. Everyone else seems to be having mind-blow... (73 words)

We have a son together, and I just found out he's been married for two years!!! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What should I do? I met John 6 years ago. We both worked for the same hospital. Within first year of dating I got pregnant. He always said we were going to get married and be family. In time I got pregnant 2 more times but miscarried. Shortly after he lost his job but got ... (676 words)

What's the best way to stop anxiety and stress?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - whats best way to stop anixety and stress?... (8 words)

What's the name for this position?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - what's the name of the sexual posistion where you place the lady's legs on to a man's shoulders while he kneels down during intercourse?... (24 words)

When people have sex is it more intercourse or oral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - when people have sex do they usually practice more intercourse or oral?... (12 words)

Can boys feel if they have 'pre-cum'? Could I be pregnant? Did I lose my virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and boyfriend were messing around and i started to give him head but he said that he wouldn't be able to orgasm as he already masturbated that day. Shortly after we ended up having sex but it was just for a couple of minuites and neither of us were extreemly turned on, and ... (99 words)

Should I say goodbye to him or take a leap of faith and tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Right, I have been what I think is friends with benefits (A)with someone for nearly 4 years. I really really like them. However, after getting sick of teh arrangement I went out and got myslef a really nice guy, really solid would do anything for me.But I find our relationship ... (268 words)

Is this a break up? What's in his mind?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i dunno if i broke up wid ma bf,whom i was datin for more than 2yrs..each time we have a fight he says "lets break up"..then i go pleadin behind him n he comes back..but this time i told him he's free to go n to not expect me to come pleadin..told him to come back only if he ... (136 words)

Me and my best friend both fancy the same guy!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I really fancy this guy , I mean I really do ... but my best friend fancies him too, I want to ask him out but I don't wanna ruin mine and her relationship. Please help!!! Thanks, Love becka.... (43 words)

My best friend stopped making time for me, should I give up and ditch her for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem in a nutshell is a girl who used to be my best friend has changed and I dont know whether to cut all ties. We met seven years ago and hit it off straight away, we were the best of friends and could tell eachother everything. Five years into this we were still go... (408 words)

We're now dating after a year of being 'friends with benefits' but he doesn't talk or initiate things, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We made things official between me and my long-time friends with benefits. He asked me. But for the past 12 months it's felt like he only asked me out to stop any chance of me going off with anyone else at the same time. He never calls, emails or messages me unless i m... (252 words)

Is he likely to call?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a dating dliema and would really appreciate your advice or thoughts! Late last year this guy I know asked me out for a drink, and as Ive always secretly fancied him a little bit, I was happy to go. We had a great time but he told me that he'd just got out o... (324 words)

What are positive ways to get male attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I hate that I need it, but I've come to realize that when I'm not dating someone, I obsess about dating someone, anyone. I don't particularly want to date anyone. I don't have the time, and there isn't anyone I like. Still I find that I need male attention. What are some ... (73 words)

I'm too shy to ask for his e-mail address face to face...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i was just wondering does anyone know a site, were i can find someone's email adress, please any help would do. Thanks i relly need it, as i'm too shy to ask face to face. Please it would be doing me a great favour.... (47 words)

Friends have too many problems and rely on me too much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, thanks for reading this! Basically i have two friends who always have things going on, whether it's getting dumped or attacked or someone dying, over the past 5-6 years i feel like i can't breathe between problems. i'm there for them 100% and i even got panick a... (218 words)

I do not want to be with her, as I know it's illegal. I seek your advice on how to get over her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need help. I really really like my (female) english teacher. She's just so beautiful and kind. She lends me book, and I've never got below a G1 in my marks for my english work. (Our grades go Good Sound Poor, and the lower the number, the more effort you've pu... (561 words)

If I love my boyfriend why do I feel like cheating on him when the occasion rises??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why is it that i love my boyfriend and i cant seem to live without him but when ever i notice a new guy i feel like cheating i feel like i wanna start something new with someone else..... (39 words)

I'm having emotional problems while away at University, can anyone relate to what I'm going through?

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28 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - After reading all the schoolgirls' crushes on their teachers on Dear Cupid, I realized how naive I was. I posted a question a few weeks ago about my feeling for my university professor. I have experienced a traumatic relationship. I was beaten by my ex-boyfriend. I ... (286 words)

I feel like my youth is passing by, any advice?

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have an issue that is bothering me and have been thinking about a lot lately. I am almost 23 years old and within the past 5 years haven't had a serious relationship and haven't had sex. I am almost done with University and then will need to start looking for a jo... (666 words)

Is it that she doesn't want me but doesn't want anyone else to have me?

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I split up with my girlfriend almost a year ago after I found out she was cheating on me. The break up was quite hard as we lived together but although she tried to keep in touch I managed to avoid her. Recently I started replying to her emails and texts. Within a couple of ... (361 words)

How can I compartmentalise my feelings like a man?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - There's a stereotype that says that men are good at compartmentalizing their feelings and actions. I was wondering if anyone thinks that women can do the same? Is this something anyone can learn or is there some reason that men are more prone to it (if they indeed are)? ... (242 words)

Any suggestions on how to reach an orgasm?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've tried masturbating but i cant orgasm. i think i might have orgasms when i let water run on my clit in the bath but im not sure. Any suggestions on how to reach and orgasm?... (36 words)

I ended my affair with the family friend but he still pursues me! I'm afraid our infidelity will come out!

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28 May 2008 (?) age - I cheated on my husband with a family friend. Husband does not know.I broke it off, but he won't let me be. He is persuing the family friendship in an effort to stay close to me. He doesn't care whether our spouses find out. We each have three kids. What should I do?... (53 words)

Is my girlfriend leaving me because of low self-esteem as she says??

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello anyone reading this... My girlfriend of 5 months just broke up with me tonight. I'm 23, and she's 20. We are in a long distance thing (we're talking 300 miles, as we go to different schools, but we have the same home town). We're able to see eachother about ... (325 words)

My friend acts and looks feminine, could he be gay or maybe undecided about his sexuality?

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is he gay or is he straight? I think my friend is gay. i asked him and he said no. he has displays of vases and bought me crystal glasses. we were drunk and he walked arm in arm with me. he wont dress in front of me. he has had sex with 2 women 1 was a 3 month fling but ... (227 words)

I am a bisexual female and I am very attracted to my best friend of 5 years. I know she feels the same way, we just never discussed it!

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and my best friend is 24. I am very attracted to her and shes very aware of this. we have had plenty of encounters in which things could have happened but didnt because i felt like she was nervous and i would only act on it if we both felt it. She is in the military, ... (149 words)

Why would anyone do that? What should I do now?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started taking ballroom classes, I met this guy at the class whom I felt very attracted to but he's 10 years older than me. NEways. We hung out outside of class, we went dancing a few times and I took him to my sorority formal, then I found out about a small sc... (443 words)

I do love him, but we can't compromise on religion!!!!! What should we do?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...i am wondering how many of you have married someone who is of a different religion than you are? If you did, how long did it last? Were there any major issues? My fiance and I are of two different religions and I can't imagine what it would be like once we were married ... (259 words)

Don’t want to break up, so what I gonna do?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is breaking up with me, and actually this is not the first time. The fisrt time was one year ago, and we got back after 10 months. He made us back, he only said that he missed me so much and I have the same feeling as him. But we’ve only been in a month, he want to ... (151 words)

We broke up like a couple months ago ut I keep thinking about her

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey my friend and I we broke up like a couple months ago. we only went out for about a month and a half. But we got to know each other pretty well. But I'm wondering how can get rid of my feelings for her? I feel as though I love her......I have for the past several months. ... (152 words)

What does this mean -I'm lost?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is updated from earlier my boyfriend left for 3 days saying he needed to sort things out and stayed at a friends. Well he came home tonight saying he was coming to get some things I asked if we were over and if I could move on he got defensive and said no . We had sex then ... (91 words)

Why's he behaving like such an arsehole?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years broke up with me last week because he "suddenly" realized that I have a son and he didn't want to be a part of it. He has made some sorry excuses in the past for pushing me away, but then he always comes back with the whole, "I want to be with you" ... (163 words)

Why wont he stop looking at porn, I've bought all his favourite stuff, so why is he still doing it?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 curently married to a 22 yr old and I just had our 6 week year old daughter. When my husband and i first got together there was never an issue of porn. But for the past 8 months he has been looking at porn every 2 or 3 days constantly looking up girls nude watching ... (187 words)

When your boyfriend plays video games for hours and hours a day does it turn anyone else off?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When your boyfriend plays video games for hours and hours a day does it turn anyone else off? My boyfriend and I live together, and he is always on, and when he isn't doing that it's porn. His love of video games is so juvenile and puts me in a terrible mood because it shuts... (71 words)

He's wonderful, but he's says inappropriate things to my friends, how can I get him to understand this?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for a year to a man whom I truly believe to be the 'one' for me. He is a wonderful husband and we have a great sex life. My problem lies with his behavior towards our female friends. He is always saying things to them which hurt my feelings. For example: ... (228 words)

He calls me all the time, is he into me or his baby mama?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So I know this guy who tells this girl that they are just friends, yet he treats her as his girlfriend. She has known him 3 years and they recently had a baby together. He said that she told him that she loved him and he told her he did too as a friend. He calls me all the ... (70 words)

Lost and Confused about love and marriage. Someone please HELP!

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been friends with this guy for about 5 years. He has been in love with me since the beginning. He lives in India, and I'm in America. I like him, but I'm not in love with him. He's lower than middle class, but planning on doing his MBA. He plans to get a job after ... (154 words)

How can I learn to trust him and get past all this?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and before i was with him a guy cheated on me and messed me up very much. now i've been trying to trust him but the past has hurt me so much. now he has been going out twith his new friend thats are all girls and its getting ... (107 words)

Hes so jealous and controlling and I have to force myself to have sex with him and don't want to!

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I just turned 21 in October. I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. Things were good at first cause I was new to the area and had no friends there. Well I made friends...and course they wanted to hang out with me. At first he was cool with it but as I ... (260 words)

Should I have sex with this friend?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im wondering should i have sex with one of my close friendds for the first time. actuaally what im asking is would it be right? becausei can see myself doing that with him, ive done stuff with him before. were really close and it would be something were open to each other ... (105 words)

I want to be with her because I know that she is the one for me, but I haven't told her, and advice?

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Dear cupid, I'm a 16-year old, going to be 17 in a few weeks, and I fell in love with a 16-year old girl in school awhile back. I told her, and she took it fine, and she loves me back, but because of (now currently fixed) family issues, I had to move almost 400 miles aw... (114 words)

I want him back but I do not know what to do. I'm so hard up and confused?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Cpid! I need some help. My boyfriend for 1 1/2 years broke up with me 5 months ago. It just didn't feel rewarding anymore and we've gotten so harsh on each other. We both admit that we still love each other, though. We still phone and catch up on each other many times a ... (147 words)

Guys, how can I get him to understand I shouldnt play second fiddle to his ex

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My current bf and I have dated for 3 months. He was best friends with his ex for 10 years before they dated for 2. She still wants him but he reassures me it's way over for them (he's had gf's between us). He wants to have a friendship with her. Last party we went to, there ... (267 words)

Her ex is possesive and live-in... What to do?

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a bit of a pickle, here, and I am looking for maybe some advice. I met this wonderful girl, she's extremely attractive, and we both like the aspects of eachother we believe are our most prominent. We make eachother laugh, and she is very affectionate, which I enjoy. ... (234 words)

A student is in love with me, how can I as a teacher discourage this behaviour?

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so I have a problem, I am a male teacher in the UK I am 25. I teach 16 -17 year olds. Having seen all the young ladies on this site who are in love with their teachers it terrifies me! I have a student in my class who has a bit of a crush. Not sure why, must be my charm an... (419 words)

She's only 15 and I'm 18, would dating be a problem?

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have liked his girl for a long time and we became best friends. We even had some feelings for each other. The thing is she's only 15 and im 18. I just wanted to know if that age gap is too much to date her. and if it is, does anyone have a good idea of how old she would be ... (68 words)

I'm a straight guy but turned on by sex thoughts about men-am I gay or Bi?

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a stright boy, i think, i have a great girlfriend, and love being with her, but recently,i have been having tought of men, i watch gayporn and i get horny and often "wank"as well to it, i have kissed a fella, and think about doing it again, but i dont feel attraction to ... (69 words)

He is older and says he loves me-should I believe him?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for about a year and for the past few months he's been telling me that he has fallen in love with me. At first I didn't believe him because in our past he lied to me about something big so it was hard for me to trust him. I am still skeptical that he ... (184 words)

Argh! My boyfriend is planning to go out partying when I'm teaching!

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28 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend is so... argh! I can't quite describe just how angry he makes me! See, I broke his trust, because last year I told him I wouldn't talk to this certain guy who used to have a crush on me anymore. But the thing is said guy is in my class. So last year I talked to... (268 words)

I'm so nervous! How does one kiss?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i am going 2 a swimming party w/ my bf this weekend.we plan 2 hold hands, hug,and kiss. but neither 1 of us have ever kissed anyone b4 and i am really nervous.i dont know wut im supposed 2 do and nuthing is giving me good answers.plz reply soon!!... (49 words)

Why is his family trying to split us up?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a very serious relationship with a boy. We are engaged and everything. One thing really bothers me though... His family is constantly trying to get him to talk to or get back with one of his ex's (and If it doesn't work with one they move to the next.) My boy says it ... (101 words)

I hate everything about my boyfriend but I love him more than anything in the world... should I leave him?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate everything about my boyfriend but I love him more than anything in the world... should I leave him? I used to trust him, I used to feel comfortable with him in public, I used to enjoy having him around, I used to like doing things for him, I used to believe everythi... (1039 words)

Is it normal to be jealous of your man watching porn?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hay qupid is it normal to be jealouse of your man watching porn? It seems to make me feel unwanted, i dont mind if he does it when im not around and dont let me know bout it but it makes me feel like he need somone prettier or im not pretty enought when he does it when im next ... (112 words)

How can I play this one cool and have some fun?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age - My BF had oral sex with another gal. He thinks I don't know about it and yet he's acting guilty. I think I'm gonna have some fun with this instead of falling apart like most women would do. This oral sex happened at work. I need lots of suggestions from you on how I can ... (76 words)

We're afraid that once we meet in person everything will change in our friendship!

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a straight textpal! I know he is straight and I know he will never be gay or anything equivalent. He knows I am gay. We want to meet one another but afraid that once we see each other in personal everything will change in our friendship? What should I do? ... (52 words)

I love her way too much to be just a friend to her!

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I was just dumped by my girlfriend a week ago. We have been dating for 3 years now and have a 2 year old son. At first I couldn't believe it, I called her constantly, only to be shut down. 4 days later she slid a note under my door saying she doesn't love me as a lover but ... (179 words)

How fast is too fast?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - HI , i met someone we get along great, he lives an hour away. We have been together a months. We are both finalizing our divorces but have been separeated for over a year. He said he wants to move to my town to be close to me and probably with me, what do u guys think? has ... (89 words)

I want to tell her what I'm feeling and thinking but I'm rather worried that it will scare her off ... it's a dilemma.

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all. Ok, this is something that has been praying on my mind over the past month or so, and not being one to tell people what I'm thinking I thought I'd bash it out here to get a general opinion. Ok, so well I'm 20, and have been seeing a girl at Uni for around 3 month... (196 words)

Help! I kissed my best friend, am I a lesbian?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - right. i recently kissed this girl, my best friend, and it wasnt the first time, we always talk about it and have a laugh but everytime i hear of a boy she has been with i instantly hate them. i dont fancy her, and im sure as hell not a lesbien. but does anyone have any adv... (91 words)

My best friend hasn't asked this one guy out for me...

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I like this one guy and I THINK he like me too, so what I asked my best freind to do is tell him I like him and ask him out for me. She hasn't done that yet so that is why I'm asking should I tell her go ahead or should I tell her never mind?... (58 words)

How can I bring up sex without making her feel like all I'm thinking about is sex?

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for about 3 months now and we have not gone much further than making out. I really like her and want to become more intimate with her. She seems to be a pretty shy person and i dont wanna make her feel uncomfortable. We still have not talked about ... (95 words)

Can exes be best friends? I'm a bit bothered by this...

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28 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey all, quick question for anyone listening, Do you think that its ok for ex's to be best friends? my new gf is bestfriends with her ex and it just makes me uneasy, she assures me that its all over between then but i still cant help but be bothered by the fact that if im not ... (81 words)

Is he being honest with me over the reasons for our breakup?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am devastated and I need an opinion...I met this guys 5 years ago while I was travelling. I fell for him and I believed he fell for me as well. It was my first relationship with an older man and because our cultures and language backgrounds were different sometimes it was a ... (1435 words)

Do I choose the jailbird or my boyfriend?

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28 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma, I have had this pen pal since 1995 I was 18 at the time, we've continued writing and became like best friends, he's 9 years older than me, anyway, this past February 2008, he sent me a ring and a card asking if I'd marry him, its sweet and all, but he's in ... (269 words)