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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together a while now and we're ready to have sex. But i'm 15 and i don't know how to ask my mum about going on the pill. Also i don't know the places where we can. Anyone got any advice?
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reader, Smiffy +, writes (29 May 2008):
wait until your 16...then its legal !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): What yummyummy said.
But also, make him wear a condom, even if you /are/ on the pill. in addition to preventing pregnancy, they're also there to help keep you free of sexually transmitted infections.
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reader, pru545 +, writes (29 May 2008):
If you are trying to ask your mom you should sit her down either at home e.g with a cup of tea and talk to her (if you can be alone it may be a lot more easier for you and your mom). or you could go somewere quit like for a walk just you to and tell your mom that you would like to go on the pill and tell her why. and belive me your mom would respect you for asking her and telling her the truth insted of you and your boyfriend trying to deal with this on your own. I hope all goes well with you and your mom and boyfriend good luck.
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reader, yummyummy123 +, writes (29 May 2008):
i remember when i had that same problem. You should probably sit her down an just tell her to listen. An then tell her how your thinking of having sex an would like to go on the pill. Since your 15, your mom may freak out. So let her calm down an then continue. Say you want to be smart with sex. An its true, your 15, way to young to want to have your own child to look after. You just need to tell her that you want to be responsible. Im sure she doesnt want to be a grandma either. But then if that fails an she says no.....i would have to say go against her. You can get them at a doctors office. Whether a walk in clinic or not. I know telling you go against your mom is bad but the thing is. You tried telling her you want to go on the pill. Id rather see you protected then pregnant. Chances are so will she
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