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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ejaculate doesn't seem to spurt very far is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age - Hi My wife and I have been married for many years, we have always enjoyed sex. one of the things we both enjoy is mutual masterbation and talking dirty to each other. she has always liked me cumming on her body but resently i cannot spray as far. when we watch movies the... (81 words)

She broke his heart 3 years ago and now that he's with me she wants him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently was left by my boyfriend for a long-distance ex who came back into the picture three years after breaking up with him. We were together six months. This is a long one, but to get the best feedback I want to portray as much of the situation and background as possible. ... (1475 words)

What are his rights regarding access to the baby he had with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance had an ex who was pregnant when we met. She said it was his, but then was going back and forth with her ex. After being 4 months along, she told him he wasnt the father and refused a DNA. A year later he recieves papers in the mail for a DNA test, bc in order to get ... (318 words)

How do you tell a friend that you like him but not make it obvious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

15 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - how can you tell a guy that you like him but not making it obvious? there is this guy I like but I dont want to make it so obvious that I like him because it would destroy are friendship ... (42 words)

How do I find the motivation to get excited about life again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age - I have had this problem for over a year now. I seemed to have lost motivation to do a lot of things. How do I get excited about life again? I will start an exercise program and stop after a week. I bought some supplies to start up a hobby I used to love and haven't even use... (165 words)

Do I give this new person a chance or just stick it out with my boyfriend and hope for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I say what my repliers are saying. But my boyfriend's team mate, has not mentioned anything about sex or anything. He is lovely, charming and absolutely beautiful. I have been drifting apart from my boyfriend for ages, to be honest I can't stand kissing him anymore.... (92 words)

I feel this man is a control freak, can our relationship survive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there, i dont know where to start with this. last year i was violently assulted by a partner resulting in many injuries including scaring to my eye and loss of teeth. it was on the return from one of the dentist trips that i met my partner. i told him how i had been abused ... (610 words)

He broke up with me after I told him the truth. How do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - He broke up with me after I came clean about everything. I told him some stuff I had been hiding. He disliked my past, he was very jealous. He had an awful temper and called me names and treated me bad when he was angry. I hated talking about my past. The more he discovered the ... (477 words)

WHY won't he just admit he cheated??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok this sounds crazy and i know its all in front of me but i keep doubting my own self.. about a month ago my gf tipped me off that my current bf of about 6months is "talking" to some girl her boyfriend knows and its still going on , but i didn't believe her.. yet.. what... (593 words)

I'm trying to date a girl who says it's too soon after her last relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, ive been trying to date this girl, she wants to date me too but she said she isnt ready cause she got out of a 2 year relationship in Feb. understandable i am not pressuring her but my friend also likes her and wants to date her and he has been following her wherever ... (82 words)

Should you lie about the best sex you've ever had?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - What if your husband/wife/gf/bf asks about the best sex you've ever had and it wasnt with them? Should you lie? Tell the truth? Change the subject? Does gender or marital status matter in this situation?... (35 words)

I really like a boy a little older than me. I need some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like a guy in the year above he's EXTEMELY hot and i mean ohmygod but i have no idea how to get him, i am soo inexperienced... my friend told me to forget about him, but i don't want to at all, he is a really nice person and i don't want to let this slip aw... (100 words)

Does he really want me back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age - I was with my ex for 15 years. In the first year of our breakup he wanted me back. Maybe it was because he had seen I had got on with my life and I had a boyfriend. After pressure from him to get back with me, he agreed to have counseling. It took us 2 years to find a cou... (250 words)

I'm sick of being second best, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

- ive reached the end. Im fed up! My best friend who i used to spend every minute of every day with has ditched me basically for his boyfriend(kinda his boyfriend.. they are but without the name 'boyfriend'). It stated off this lad coming out with me and my friend every now and ... (616 words)

He makes fun of me and my mates don't like him. I do like him, but I'm not sure what I should do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this lad i really like loads and i think he likes me too but im not sure cos he always takes the mick out of me but it is in a fun way. also all my mates dont like him. what should i do?... (45 words)

What can you do if you like someone but they don't like you back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well am really confused what would you do if you liked someone (a boy) but they didnt like you back... (20 words)

I asked if she wanted me to go to Spain with her. She hasn't replied. Was it too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

- Ok i met this girl in march that i really like, im 33 and she is 26. She is a really nice girl, kind, considerate, caring, and is into the same sort of things i like. We have been out on 3 dates, the first two were just a drink, and the third was dinner. On the last date she ... (275 words)

Is he serious about a relationship, or should I just enjoy the sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a fling with a cool guy about 6 years ago. We were never bf/gf but we really liked eachother and enjoyed hangin out. (Sex, Sex and more SEX) I returned home and we text the next few days. He hasn't called on the phone and has only left me texts.Then a day went by with... (157 words)

Should I try talking to my best friend, or wait for her to contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's note, names have been changed to protect privacy.] I'll try my best to describe the situation that I am in. Well see my best friend Alexa has a a cousin and her name is Mara and they don't like each other. I talk to both of them they are both good friends. Everyday... (261 words)

How do I let my mum know I want to see a counsellor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I havn't really got much goin' for me right now and i havn't come on here for sympathy like a tragic teenager BLAHBLAHBLAA. I know every teenager seems to be "depressed" atm, so its hard to tell whether it's genuine or not, but i really feel as though i need help, but don't ... (226 words)

Why can't I ever get a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - why cant i ever get a boyfriend am i not doing somthing right? i wear gasses i have blonde hair i have paley skin ... (30 words)

Should I get involved with this "ned"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Update. I'm 16 and I am really attracted to this guy in my year. He is a very nice looking guy for his age but has different interests to me. He likes to drink and he used to smoke. In our area he is classed as a "ned". He makes out like he likes me and he is always complimen... (193 words)

Am I in love or should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when your in love with someone? I am 16 and I've liked this guy for ages, about a year at least. He used to like me but we were both shy and weren't sure who should make the first step. He was really nice to me and I couldn't stop thinking about him. He wa... (169 words)

Girls only, please! I'm having a heavier than normal period...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Girls (only plz) i been havin periods for a while now and they havnt been bad i never had pain or anything like that. however this time its alot heavier and i dont know why ? Is this normal for it to change or does it does depend on the person ?... (57 words)

Does the intensity of butterflies and rapid heartbeat equate to the intensity of your love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - 10 years ago I met a woman that gave made my heart race and gave me butterflies in my belly. We began dating on and off for several months but just as things were about to get serious she had to move away to grad school. The two of us had outstanding sexual and emotional ... (506 words)

Embarassing question, I seem to have lost a vibrator...

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - okay, this is embarrassing. About 2 weeks ago, I came home from a night out (yes, alcohol was involved). I fell asleep with my cordless "bullett" (a small vibrator) and have not been able to find it since. Is it possible that it is lost inside of me? It is only about 3 ... (84 words)

Is he making enough of an effort? Or am I being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I recently joined an internet dating site, after my long term partner and I split up, as I thought it would be a good way to meet people. I initially went on for friendship (with men and women .... i do already have my own circle of friends but t... (502 words)

Where should his loyalty lie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, help solve a problem about loyalty and whom is right and whom is wrong, im engaged to a great guy, now the problem is where should his loyalty lay, with is ex wife, his mum and his family, his kids and me even though im not their mother, am i wrong for wanting us ... (81 words)

Please help, I'm in love with someone that doesn't love me and not with the one that does!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i was dumped :( i was truly in love but he thought differently i guess its been around 2 months and i just really wont to get back at him so i asked out his enemy and i know this was such a stupid spit full thing to do but i was crazy in love i just wanted to be hurt the ... (281 words)

How do I behave around her boyfriend? I've fallen for her, and I know I can't do anything about it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope you can help. I've fallen for somebody who has a boyfriend. Now, I know that I can't do anything about it and as far as I know they are perfectly happy. I don't want to come between her and her boyfriend, but if I'm honest I do want to be in a position where if ... (240 words)

I'm not ready to kiss him yet, how can I explain without hurting his feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps trying to kiss me, but we haven't even been dating a week and I'm not ready for him to kiss me yet, but I don't know how to tell him this without him feeling rejected. He's never kissed a girl before so maybe he's just hasty because he doesn't know about this ... (69 words)

I lied to him, so now I'm coming clean. I know this time, I'll lose him for good. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been together for almost two years. In the beginning it seemed as if we were perfect for each other; I could be myself around him, I let him be, and everything went great. From the beginning I knew he was jealous (asked me not to talk about my past, for that ... (559 words)

He told me he cheated but he hasn't explained himself. Should I end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriends constantly telling me how much he loves me, cuddling and kissing me. i thought everything was perfect until he told me he "cheated" on me last night. It was pretty basic as he told me online even though i see him most nights and i have no idea whether he was t... (181 words)

My boyfriend wants a break but I want to be with him so badly...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of 4 years decided he wants a break. i respect the fact that he wants it because i hear when other people take them the relationship is so much stronger in the end if they stay together. but its easier said then done. all i do is think about him. i am 22 he is 26. ... (231 words)

Why is he still with me after I lied to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone ok i have a question that might seem stupid but i dont know what 2 thnk of the situation! my boyfriend is still w/me after everything ive done 2 him ive lied 2 him a few times and he told me he'll be w/me no matter how long it takes 2 make our relationship work so ... (152 words)

I hate my boyfriend's smoking habit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - bit of an awkward one this. has anyone got any ideas how to make someone sort out there appearance? for me its my fellas teeth. its embarassing but he has smoked since he was 14,hes now 41. his teeth are going brown and i cant bear the thought of kissing him anymore. apart from ... (140 words)

Just a crush? Surely at 32 I'm too old to have a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and I have what I thought was a crush on one of his friends, now Im not so sure. They arent really close friends, they just drink in the same group of lads. I just dont know what to do, I know I would never cheat on my boyfrien... (154 words)

I'm confused about how he feels, and I don't want to get hurt again. Your thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i really need some help i am in this relationship at the moment it is a bit complicated as we live apart from each other and have both been hurt. The other day i told him that i loved him, and he said to me that he might be falling in love with me as well, and then in ... (150 words)

I'm doing my GCSE's and I really don't want to fail! Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im doin my GCSE's and i realy dont want to fail any but i no i am because i cant ever be bothered with my lesssons and act up.. if i fail my GCSE's my mum and dad are goin to be so disappointed in me. my brothers and sister were drop outs and i want them to be proud of me. They ... (100 words)

How painful would it be to shave down there?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - How painful would it be to shave 'down there'? I don't see how hairs growing back could be painful.... (19 words)

10 years ago I was drugged and raped by my aunt's BF, should I tell my niece this is why I stopped visiting them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - when i was 28 i was drugged and raped by my aunts boyfriend,when i went home i slept for 2 days not knowing a thing, all i told my husband was that i must have been spiked because i only took one drink so i got on with life,but now its all coming back to haunt me,my niece was ... (200 words)

It's all my fault for putting up with a loser. How do I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there wonder if anyones in similar posistion?ive been with my bf for 4yrs now.the trouble is he is heavily involved with his ex.they have a child who is 16yrs old now.they split up when he was 3yrs old for christs sake?ive gone through 4yrs of crap about him going round her ... (304 words)

I told my Mum all my sex details. She won't tell me hers. What gives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm angry with my mum i've told her all my sexually explict details, and she won't tell me any of hers. What gives?... (24 words)

My husband says he doesn't love me the way he used to. Can I get him to fall in love with me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband says he doesn't love me the way he used to. he's just finished an affair after 4 months is this a normal way to feel after an affair or should i be concerned. We have been together for 25 years. I still love him and want my marriage to work hes now back home so ... (97 words)

Why has he become distant and cold? Is this relationship over?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For the men: Can you please explain to me this male mentality of, if one part of my life sucks, everything sucks? My bf of 7 months all of a sudden started acting very distant and cold when he became incredibly busy at work. One day he'd want me, the next not. When I aske... (321 words)

If I want to look at porn, I have a right, right?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend found porn on the computer yesterday that we share. I accidentally left the history up and she looked through it and saw what I had been looking at. I told her I was bored and those websites were in the magazine I was reading so I wanted to look at them. But then ... (191 words)

Why does he allow his grown-up children to treat me like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age - i need help in finding some way to deal with the following situation. the man that i have been dating for 3 and one half years is 69 years old. he is hisself dysfuntional and his family is very dysfunctional. his family were somewhat friendly to me up until july when he ... (774 words)

Is it only his mid-life crisis? Will he love me as he should again some day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for 20 years and thought we had a very strong marriage. Four months ago I discovered my husband was having an affair and I threw him out. Once reality had set in I realised throwing him out was a huge mistake I desperately wanted him to come home but he ... (213 words)

I need to move on, but my feelings won't let me

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I went out with someone on and off for a peroid of the last 4 years, it wasn't the easiest of relationships. I am quite emotional and take things personally, and he was very moody, often blocking me out, refusing to see me because he was having a bad day, these days wou... (694 words)

Shaven or Hairy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been trimming my pubic hair regularly. But am not sure its what guys like. The guy I was planning to have sex with likes it shaven. Should I continue shaving or do guys prefer hairy?... (37 words)

He says he does not want a girlfriend but I don't believe him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone I met my Boyfriend this year january and we hit it off, he told me he does not have a girlfriend and i did not believe him, he wanted me to movein with him i wanted to coz every second without him was unbearable,i then moved to another city,sometimes w... (143 words)

How fast is too fast? I don't want him to think I am a slut.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

- Hi, I was wondering - how fast is too fast? I'm 16 and I met a guy my age the other day and we really hit it off, we got on really well. We ended up making out pretty intensly in a park. He did start undoing my jeans but stopped when I stopped him and apologised for being too ... (154 words)

I want to give my wife a good reason to shave her pubic hair

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age - Hi Readers I have always wanted my wife to shave her pussy, she agrees whilst we are having sex but never gets round to doing it. so i can give her a good reason to do it, 'is there any good reasons or if anyone as any ideas... (54 words)

I'm going to be a Dad, but she won't get back together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there 6 weeks ago i found out i was going to be a dad, i was shocked at first but realised it was a special thing to happen. Then when we discussed it my partner did not want to live where we where at, she wanted me to move closer to her parents. This was not possible as ... (407 words)

I got married twice but I never got divorced

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age - I have made a terrible mistake. I got married in Jamaica 18 years ago. We broke up about 6 months later and neither of us bothered getting divorced because it was in a foreign country and we thought we'd never get found out. I met a new man and we have been married for 15 ... (177 words)

How can we stop arguing over silly things when we love each other so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am coming up to a year now with the most wonderful guy and I have honestly never felt so in love or so loved before but sadly we seem to keep arguing over the silliest things and we have now both noticed it has been getting more frequent. I think it started because of the ... (256 words)

I love him but have problems trusting him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend,we started dated 2 yrs ago,at first things were not that great,there was no trust, we loved each other but he still had his girlfriend and that ruined our relationship because sometimes she will call and i will get jelouse but i never confronted him until we ... (140 words)

I quite often dream of my boyfriend cheating on me, and I wake up crying

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I'm being way too insecure, but I don't know how to handle it. It's not that I'm insecure about myself. I'm insecure about my relationship with my boyfriend. I quite often dream of my boyfriend cheating on me, and I wake up crying. When we're apart, I call him all the ... (96 words)

My sisters don't like my boyfriend should I discuss it with them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When my family first met my boyfriend, they all thought he was funny and great, but after a while, my sisters started to dislike him. One of my sisters secretly told me that they all felt that he wasn't treating me good enough. I actually kind of felt the same way, but I was ... (102 words)

Why can't I orgasm during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - The sex with my boyfriend feels great, but I've never orgasmed during sex before. I want to know how it feels like, but I can't do it. I'm not sure what's wrong. Does anyone have any ideas?... (37 words)

Does her eating disorder have anything to do with her lack of response to fingering?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i've asked this before but it's a little different i think now.. ok well tonight i went down on my gf for the the like second time and she got off to it.. but um fingering her she says still gets her no where and she even said it kinda made her have to pee.. but she did ... (181 words)

What should I do to let her know I want to be with her, even though she's still in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - okay, i'm 16 and there's this girl that i really, really like alot. At the moment she's in a relationship, but i can't really see it going anywhere because she's constantly being broken hearted by this guy, being let down by him and lately it's become apparent that he may be ... (192 words)

What do I need to do to get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I got a great issue goin on for of all I just had my healthy babyboy born on easter and am very happy about that. To continue I have this ex-boy that I can't let go. Reasons for that is cuz when we did go out I had many friends and lifestyle tellin me not to stay but now I ... (431 words)

Since I started breast-feeding I'm no longer feeling any titilitating titty teasing with my man!-Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey anties and Uncles! I am a breastfeeding mama, and this is my 2nd child, but with this one, all the pleasure I used to get out of nipple play has GONE AWAY!!! EEK! I want it back, but dont want to stop breastfeeding my little girl. I stopped breastfeeding my 1st when he was ... (113 words)

Will regular masturbation affect my sex life with a partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am not married and have been mustarbating for almost ten years,could this might bring problems in my life when i get married?please advice o that i can avoid or continue... (31 words)

Should I tell my best mate I'm in love with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ive known this guy since i was about 6 -7 years old, I'd visit his town every christmas and we'd see each other for the fornight that i was there. We had always had a little bit of a crush on each other, and our parents thought it was cute. In the last couple of years ... (341 words)

I'm in love with a married woman, I'm not going to try and break up her marriage though by pursuing her, is it still o.k. just to be friends with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So i really dont know what to do here. Let me explain. I am 26 years old, single, and will be for a while. Im just not into the whole dating thing. I have a friend, who i talk to alot. We met about 3 years ago. She is alot older then i am, married with kids. I have never over ... (315 words)

Did he just break my hymen after several months of sex? Is this possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months now. We had sex about 9 months ago i sopose and i never had any bleeding the first time at all (I was a virgin) and a few days ago we had sex and I did have bleeding. That was the first time I have had any bleeding. I am ... (99 words)

I'm not a big fan of going on top, am I doing something wrong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I never found the girl on top position to be all that great. I constantly hear how satisfying it feels for women, but I never get much out of it. Could I be doing it wrong?... (38 words)

I'm 16 and dealing with an abusive boyfriend, I don't want to leave him, any ideas?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years now. He's 17, and I'm 16. Things were really great for the first couple of months into the relationship, and after that, they just kind of spiraled down hill from there. First, it started with all the lies. About... (175 words)

Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all these just excuses? Does he mean ... (99 words)

How do I develope a closer friendship (not relationship!) with my teacher?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I know I am joining the legions of students on here who say they are in love with their teacher, but hear me out as mine is a little different. I absolutely adore my teacher, and he has indicated that he really likes me too (though he hasn't VERBALLY said anything to ... (244 words)

I have a very very diverse complex mix, and I need a POLITE or even cheeky-tongue-in-cheek-non-offensive-funny answer to give to intrusive strangers!

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very very diverse complex mix, because of this it makes me stand out as I look extremely different from most people. My race is completely unspecific or impossible to guess. So every single time I leave my house I always have people stopping me, doesnt matter at bus ... (472 words)

What should a girl my age look for in a relationship? I'm 14-15.

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15 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - what should a girl at my age(14-15) look for in a relationship?... (12 words)

What do men feel when their penis enters a vagina?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - what do men feel when their penis enters a vagina? and what do they feel as a woman has orgasms? can they feel the spasms of the vagina? and a friend of mine had 5 kids, shes worried her vagina is not that tight any more as she cant feel all the time her bf cum unless hes ... (96 words)

My bf and his brother donated their sperm so their lesbian friends could have a baby. Can this happen without sex?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf has 2 lesbian friends that are friend of the family well they wanted to have a baby so my bf and his brother donated there sperm to her but they put it in a cup and they waited a min or so and then she went and poured it into her can she still get pergnant if they didnt ... (66 words)

Should I marry him, he doesn't seem to care anymore?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Does he even care anymore? So I have had a boyfriend for 4 years now...and we have been engaged for 6 months. It seems like ever since we got engaged, he doesnt care anymore. We made a huge mistake in getting engaged so young (21) and we put my ring on a credit card... H... (378 words)

I keep finding naked pictures of his ex, what should I do?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Last year, I accidentally found my boyfriend's porn on his external hard drive. In that collection, I found naked pictures of his ex-girlfriend after he told me that he didn't have them anymore. I got very angry and deleted all of them. When I confronted him, he said that he ... (161 words)

All we do is argue, but we can't seem to be able to let go!

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my bf for about 3 years off and on now. We had an amazing relationship at first, but then things broke down. We always argue as least once a week and it gets bad. I feel all we do is argue these days. I cant seem to let go and neither can he as we love each ... (118 words)

Bad pain, due to PID or pregnancy?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i need help i have or had PID pevlic inflamotary dease i dont know if im spelling it right but well i think im pregnant now im having bad bad pain i didnt wait 3 weeks to have sex i did it the next day and i think also i might have it again any advise ? ... (61 words)

I miss him so much, but I can't find the courage to tell him!

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15 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my ex are still friends, broken up for a while, he has a girlfriend (His ex) who has flirted with his best friend (As in would drop my ex in a second if his friend asked her out) I'm friends (With benefits) with my ex's ex best friend (the same guy who his girlfriend ... (217 words)

I'm trying to write the music to a song that my bff wrote, but it's not very good and I don't want to hurt her feelings!

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay my bff wrote a song and she wants me to create the music to it. Im a pretty good musician but i can't make the music to it! My dad is a really good musician too and he can't make the music. the song isn't good at all. I've thought about asking my band teacher to help me ... (125 words)

I'm waiting to hear him tell me he loves me!

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We talked about the word 'love' early on, and we felt it was best not to use it so soon. As of now, I feel like it's been long enough. I want him to tell me that he loves me, but I don't think it's going to happen anytime ... (196 words)

I need to get control of my life...things are very complicated and messy!

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - this is a real question im 17 living with a guy 18 years older than me but he doesnt know im 17 he thinks im 20 and well while he is at work i have sex with strange me for money im also pregnant with the guy i live withs baby as i was pregnant before all this started... (321 words)

Is she gay? Does she have a crush on me or something?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, I have this friend. Well really, a friend of a friend, But we always hang out. We're all girls. And this person doesn't always get on with me. She's really childish, irritating and insecure and sometimes she likes me sometimes she hates me for no reason. I try to get on ... (292 words)

Was I wrong to call this guy before he leaves for Africa?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I finally decided to call a guy I have such a big crush on. After a year of not seeing him or talking on the phone, just email. Well, I did it cuz he´s leaving on a trip shortly to Africa and is going to be away for 6 months. We live apart from each other though. He said and... (181 words)

Does anyone here know about the Mayan calendar?

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15 May 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Hey aunties and uncles! So, I've been doing all kind of research on one of the oldest tribes to exist on the planet, the Mayans. I am so fasinated with their astrology and calander. Instead of a mixed up month that coinsides with the sun, theu have a 28 day calander, that ... (146 words)

Why did she reject me?

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15 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - why do girls still reject. My friend rejected me even though I treated her like a queen, she knows I'm crazy over her. I'm perfect in front of her, I've done everythin for her. I may not be person person but in front of her I've Neva annoyed her, upset her or anything negative. ... (69 words)

What can I do to get over her?

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15 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked my friend out but she said no. We stopped talkin. I was crazy over her, I was smashed into bits because I liked her for over 2yrs!! Nyway slowly getting over it she started talkin and I am normal with her. Without realizing my friend told me I keep mentioning her name, ... (97 words)

I fell for him, we've agreed to be just mates, but I'm still upset!

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - advice if you were in my situatuion, iv know this guy for 2 years now, we'v always got on really well, and latly we got really close, i fell for him and i like him with all my heart, his parents even used to be friends with my parents when they were young, he's been coming ... (166 words)

What can I do to get my mind off from my ex and move on?

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15 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up, we were together for 2 years!i felt somthin ws wrong cos he wasn't treating me well,he was always taking me for granted and wen i asked him about it,he took the opportunity and dumped me!:( my heart broke like i never thought possible. He said its... (255 words)

Sex with a fat person, should I give it a try?

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15 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy asked me to have sex with him. I like him and was thinking about saying yes. I like him alot and he is very nice-looking and has a great personality but is well-built. Would it be awkward having sex with him because he is fat?... (47 words)

Is this a good plan for losing fear of speaking to girls?

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15 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I have never had a girlfriend, kissed or even held hands. I’m overweight (visibly) and generally painfully shy. I’ve just started considering a plan that can get my shyness to girls to disappear always have trouble talking to them or looking them in the eyes, and I'm ... (221 words)