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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It was anonymous, but I feel kinda guilty and scared that he'll know it was me, did I do something awful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this website where you upload pictures (photoblog). A guy I used to be friends with, a long time ago, had written a lot about me, 'cos he was obsessed with me back then. I had written stuff to him there also, because he was a friend of mine, so I treated him right 'cos ... (515 words)

Can projecting a bad conscience ruin my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Help!!! I have been in the most perfect relationship for circa 18 months now with a girl that means everything in the world to me! I really love her with all my heart! Then 2 days ago I was at this birthday party (with my girlfriend) where also my ex girlfriend showed up late... (280 words)

My practical driving test is tomorrow and I can't find my theory test certificate? Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me!!! My practical driving test is tomorrow and i cannot find my theory test certificate? I dont know what to do? Can anybody please please help me?... (30 words)

I think I may have been date raped by my boss.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I was date-raped. I ran in to my boss in a bar after I had already been drinking, and he offered to get me a drink. I asked for a vodka orange, but he asked me if I would prefer vodka redbull, and got me that instead. After that drink, I completely blacked out and can'... (99 words)

His porn viewing has ruined our relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everybody.I hope you can take sometime to read this, as i am in desperate need of some help. If i may say,i dont want to be told how stupid, immature or pathetic im being. I just need some advice,to really help me out, as my problem is ruining my life. Here goes, ive ... (1156 words)

He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex with me. I kinda do..but im afra... (189 words)

Which of the four should I choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this boy loves me, well says he loves me, and he's also my ex. This other boy says he misses me and stuff, which is another ex, and this other kid always says he loves me but we're really close and we hangout alot, and then there's this other boy that just started ... (85 words)

I am so sexually frustrated and all the masturbating in the world cannot help me!! Can you??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have a major problem with my marriage. Although my relationship with my husband is great in every other way, the sex is so lame that i cannot take it. It´s pretty much the usual 2-minute missionary intercourse under the covers with the lights off once every tw... (246 words)

I need some tips about prom night and a campout, please.

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11 May 2008 (F) - I'm going to prom with my friend's brother. He's really nice and flirty. We aren't going out but...I'm not sure what will happen on prom night. He's 2 years older than me. It's my prom. My friend thinks that on prom night she will drive me and another friend and our dates wi... (167 words)

My boyfriend's friend wont give us any time to be alone!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well my boyfriend's friend is always around us and he always pushes me out of everything just to be with my boyfriend. He also spends to much time with him when i would love to spend time with my boyfriend. Like a week ago i was talking to my boyfriend at lunch saying h... (172 words)

My friend used to be a tomboy but now she's a girly girl! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I don't know where to start with this but I've got a friend (who I consider to be my best friend) that I've known since we were 9. We're now both 21 and I'm God Mother to her son. But recently she started hanging out with another girl that's her cousin's girlfriend. I me... (185 words)

My boyfriend masturbates while I am asleep! What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just found out my bf masturbates daily when I'm asleep, but he always says he's not horny when I ask for sex. When I talked to him about it he just said he can't help it, he gets horny at about 2 or 3 in the morning and doesn't want to wake me (I need my sleep!) What can we d... (62 words)

I have milky, white discharge! What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Today when i went to the restroom i had a milky white discharge in my panties and while i was using it white discharge was leaking what is wrong with me? ... (31 words)

Is he supposed to call if he's casually dating others? Do I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We talked a lot while eating and we were quieter during the movie. We got to see each other after more than one month so it was a little bit strange first but then we warmed up. After four hours together, we had to say good bye but while he was on his way, I asked him if wanted ... (235 words)

Unbearable truth....do I move on or wait for a cheater to reform?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 38 and my ex gf is 23 going on 24. We had been together for over a year and a half. Chance meeting at a bar and I wasn't looking for someone this young. Firstly, she's geniunely naive, stupid and weak. I slept with her the first night. I had never done that before and ... (680 words)

I want to love him and lose my virginity to him. How do I know if it's right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think im falling in love but im not sure if he's in love with me but i wanna trust him but im not sure and im not sure if i should loose my virginity tom him ... (37 words)

Mother's Day blues...is it selfish to want to be by myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 May 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Hey guys. Its mothers day, and I have 2 very young kids. Is it selfish of me to just want to be by myself today? I mean, I made the kids and my husband a big breakfast, but now, I just want to be alone, play guitar all day. Is this "holiday" really supposed to be for the kids ... (68 words)

My ex wants us to be friends even though he has a girlfriend. Why does he send me mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex-boy friend been broken up for almost 4-5years and he is in another relationship still with the girl he was cheating on me with. He want's us to be friends but it's hard for me because we had history. I get a feeling that he regrets are break-up even though he was ... (331 words)

I'm heartbroken and frustrated, will I ever find love again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Will I ever find love again? I thought that I had finally found my soul mate and after almost 2.5 years together she decided that she wanted to be friends. I know she got frustrated that we weren't engaged yet and I wanted to and told her this but i had just gotten laid off ... (200 words)

How can I get past him cheating on me twice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for over two years. Within the first six months he cheated on me twice, just kissing two other girls. I found out after about a year, and we decided to try and work things out. I have forgiven him, and am trying to trust him again, and ... (103 words)

36 year-old woman sleeping in the same bed as her uncle?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - what do you think of a 36yo woman sleeping in the same bed with her uncle? yes she lied to me, she said she's living with her uncle in separate bedroom, but when i went to their apartment it was just a studio and they're sleeping together in one queen size bed.... (52 words)

Together 5 years and no sex in last two months. Help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My friend and I have been together 5 years recently he and I haven't had sex in two months. I know he's a heavy drinker and I think he maybe using something eles could that be a problem. He says he isn't cheating and to please give him time to get his self together that he is ... (74 words)

Looking for my first relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old shy guy from Southampton looking for his first relationship, I am loving and kind who would be described by his friends as a gentleman. I do chat to girls and they seem to like me but there always comes a point in the convosation when I have to tell them ... (175 words)

I have a boyfriend, but now I have very strong feelings for a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, i really need advice!! i have very strong feeling for a guy who now im very close friends with but whom i know for less than a year. i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. i know its probably just a crush and itll pass but we get along so well and have such a ... (282 words)

My smile is awful! What can I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, I'm 15, and I have a really awful smile! i'm quite pretty (ish) but when i smile showing my teeth it kind of makes my chin jut out, and my teeth are awful anyway even though ive had braces. Please, does anyone have any advice on what i can do about this? i really want to ... (60 words)

I'm not sure how to give head. Help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The past weekend, I was asked to give head, but I'm not sure how to. I really liked the guy who asked me to give him head, but I had to tell him no, becuase I don't really get how to. Help please?... (43 words)

I am questioning my same sex relationship now that the 'Honymoon Period' is over. Can you advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. i just need some advice. im 23 and have been in a same sex relationship for just on 2 years now. iv been extremely happy in the relationship and to be honest could not think of there being any better. I'v been in love with my partner exlusively for the length of time h... (520 words)

My boyfriend has an addiction to amateur porn, is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 25. We have been dating for 4 months but he has an addiction to amatuer porn. On top of this I found he had a profile on a dating website which is just for sex. He says he only uses it to see amatuer porn and he deleted his profile a few hours be... (146 words)

I constantly get accused of having affairs and I can't take it anymore. Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hi everyone, same old story i suppose but here goes, i have two gorgeous children with my partner of five years. very happy till a few months ok, i constantly get accused of having affairs. which im not but her friends keep telling her otherwise. got to grunch time n... (98 words)

Are there any men out there not obsessed with porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a long term relation-ship with a guy who was far from the type who goes after big breasted bimbos, and who was interested in feminism and wanted his girlfriend to be his intellectual partner. Sounds great.But it turned out that he had huge interest in porn: not the ... (214 words)

My husband of almost 18 years said he wasn't happy and has moved out, how do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for almost 18 years. We have two wonderful teenage daughters. We have had a great marriage - no real serious problems. We hardly ever fought. We have always been a close knit family, went on trips a couple times a year, had many parties, ... (276 words)

Why hasn't he let me meet his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok ppl i neva did dis b4 but i need your advice on something ok i have been wit this boy for basically 4 months already n we are in love we have a great relationship we neva fight or anything but im so confused of why i he hasnt let me meet his family he has met me mine and ... (114 words)

Confused about brownish discharge. What is wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 20yr old girl who have brownish discharge anytime i feel horny or have romantic touches with my boyfriend, it sometimes result to my montly period or smtimes d discharge stays for 1 week and stops. am really confused what is wrong and what do i do?... (49 words)

My long-term boyfriend's condoms have mysteriously disappeared. Am I over analysing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - i thought i remembered a condom or two left in the condom drawer of my boyfriend's(3 years with him) aparment and also possibly opened wrappers from us there (just being lazy about throwing out the wrapper)...i actually don't 100% remember but i don't remember it being so ... (180 words)

My friends say she's cheating on me but she denies it. Who do I trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Im very worrid, I have been told by people I trust very much that my partaner is cheating on me. She is denying it, but i dont think so many people can be lying. Also she was going to the cinima with another one of her freinds and someone said to her "You know your gonn'a kiss ... (131 words)

My boyfriend has moved abroad without considering me, should I follow him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has moved from the UK to the US a month ago - something he has had planned for 2 years. I met him 14 months ago and we fell in love quickly but he never once considered whether I was able to come with him and decided that he could not stomach being in the UK any ... (217 words)

I feel sick at the way he behaves

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it ever ok to be in a relationship with a man who uses and sells drugs? Or torments your daughter with names? Or is signed on at many dating sites with pics you took of him on vaca even though he doesnt log in often? Why do I need validity for this? I know the an... (232 words)

I want to do something romantic, not sexy. Ideas please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5992 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone ok so what should i do! i want 2 do something romantic and sexy on monday nite 4 my bf and i was thinking make a couple snacks lay a blanket down on the ground and look up at the stars talk cuddle. but i was thinking theres got 2 b something better i can do im ... (87 words)

I'm confused but I love him. I need some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i have liked this boy for a long time and we have a really special bond , he even says that we are really close he comes to sit next to me all the time in school and everyone says he always flirts with me so i flirt back and he loves it , yesterday him and his best fri... (266 words)

How do I stop the spots appearing? And how to I get rid of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, is there anyhing i can do to help me not to get spots, by tht i mean teenage spots, i've always had them and always used a facewash that is supposed to help prevent them but then i oticed i started getting blackheads so chnaged it use one for those and whilst they were ... (149 words)

Love is not something to base a relationship on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age - In my experience "love" is not something to base a relationship on. It makes you ignore what the relationship will realistically be like down the road. When you act on "love" and create a relationship, you still need to get over the "honeymoon" period, and come down to earth, ... (100 words)

He was acting like a doormat but now things have changed and I feel like a doormat! Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. I know things change as you become more comfortable with each other, but it seems he has totally changed! He was the type of boyfriend that if I told him to jump, he would say how high. If I got frustrated during an arg... (305 words)

We keep breaking up and I don't know why I keep going back?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have dated for almost 5 months... and we have broken up 4 times already over stupid things. but i dont like to argue with him and i dont. but I dont know why i keep goin back to him. But I know im in love. because ive never felt this ... (168 words)

We broke up but he has been finding reasons to contact me, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - hey aunts jus wondering. me and my boyfriend hav been broken up for 2 months almost and only recently like 2 weeks ago his been trying to get my attention. It started off by him msgin me pointless things like "do u know where this place is?" then it started to be like "d... (449 words)

I want to trust my new girlfriend, I don't want to get hurt though

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age - I need help in my relationship, because I keep worrying bout getting hurt again and I know my new girlfriend will never hurt me. I want to let her into my heart and break down my walls but how do I do this, please help before its to late we dont want to lose eachother, PLEASE ... (58 words)

I've trouble finding a boyfriend - what am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have the worst trouble finding a boyfriend. I am almost 21 and still single (yeah very pathetic hahaha!) I just want to know what I'm doing wrong. I can be shy but I'm not as shy as I used to be. Is there any fool proof ways to get a guy? And is online dating sites a good way... (70 words)

We are both virgins, what can I do to make the first sexual experience least painful for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi - i am an 18 year old guy and have shared a nice relationship with a very cute girl. I love her very very much and am commited towards her. we never got physical in the first 3 yrs- but have started getting a little physical lately. To me - it is very important to give her ... (155 words)

He broke up with me suddenly, so why is he telling me he still loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My now ex-boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago after 3 intense years together. It came as a bit of a shock because we had been having a few problems but agreed to work through them but before we had a chance to he broke off with me. We both went to different universities ... (649 words)

Embarassed to buy lubricant and condoms...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - im 14 and i want to masturbat with condoms or lube but im too embarrased to go to the shop and buy them myslef what should i do?... (28 words)

Where else could I meet girls so that I know for definite that they are single? I've trust issues.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I already posted a question at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fine-except-im-scared-to-ask-out-girls.html, thanks for the advice, however, it didn't quite come out the way I intended. The actual problem is that I have an inability to trust women. I asked a girl out once, s... (162 words)

My husband doesn't want to have sex anymore, is it time to move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I thought this was the perfect man for me. we were so in love when we got married. We made love several times a day. We loved to hang out together, talk for hours. We have not made love in a very long time.. almost a year. I constantly asked him what was wrong, why dont we ... (161 words)

My wife had sex with our neighbour. How do I get past this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I live in india. Six months back my wife came to me and confessed to me that she had sex with my neighbour and very much regretted for that. Also promised that hereafter she won't do like that again. Initially I consoled her and accepted because of her open minded. Sh... (106 words)

He broke up with me, how do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago, he was all i had and im feeling exremely lonely and want him back, how can i get him back? ... (32 words)

My college debts are dragging me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi not really a love question but anyway here goes. Im 21 ill be 22 next month and im at uni. I have another year to go and am already in debt with fees and everything. My problem is im dying to go travelling and I feel like everyone my age is going away but Im stuck at home. I ... (206 words)

Will she go back to her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. ive met this girl and we get on great and i really like her. the problem i have shes just recently come out of a long relationship. it ended because he slept with someone behind her back. that was a while ago but she took him back but she sed it was never the same so ... (336 words)

A bad thing from my past has put me off sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I find it hard since a certain bad thing happend when I was a bit younger about 13.It made me look at sex differntly not for the good, so Ihave found it hard over the last past couplle of years to enjoy it and to just let my self go and relax.But I just cant seem to have a ... (103 words)

Could he still love me after seven long years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can a guy really go a long perioud of time away from you but really acctually love you very much the whole time.seven years is a long time,I know he loves me,I am just hoping that hes really changing and iam getting old or somthing.... (45 words)

I feel like he only stays around because I complain or force him... what can be done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 27 married with 3 kids (5yrs,1yr, and 1mon old) and a step-daughter (4yrs). My husband and i have been having problems from day 1 even before we got married. My husband likes to be with his friends a lot. We don't go out no more and all i do is work and stay home. He wor... (132 words)

Why do I get a burning sensation when I get fingered?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Hi, im 15 and have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years next week. I love hjim to peices and we respect each other so last year we decided to start a sexual relationship. We started off by fingering and manually getting each other off and it was fine. then we thought ... (144 words)

I get extremely hot and sweaty during sex, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age - Why do I get so extremely hot and sweaty during sex? I am mostly holding up my body weight the entire time but I always have....... (26 words)

How to deal with my boyfriend taking drugs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has done pot on the odd occasion when it was at a party or something he went to. and i was fine with it because it was just a social thing. Im anti drug, have never taken illegal drugs in my life and i hardly drink. He now goes out once a week to his mates pl... (102 words)

I want to date and gain more experience, when should I lose my virginity? It's stigmatising me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin. Without getting into too much history, I've had one boyfriend. We're not together anymore and the furthest physically we ever went was kissing. I'm a fairly sexual person, having read romance novels for most of my life and having access to the ... (117 words)

The two brothers have feelings for me and I don't know what to do since I have feelings for both of them as well...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a really difficult time I've been knowing these two guys for a while now and they are brothers well I've always had a crush on them both one is 16 and very mature and the other is 20 also mature I'm 21 and I talk to the 16 year old more than I do with the 20 year old ... (104 words)

Just out of curiousity, what does this dream mean? My teacher is involved.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I've had this dream about a teacher of mine...Who I have strong feelings for. Before you say anything, I am NOT like other girls. I'm doing the right thing by actually trying to get over him. Why? Because I know if that if we had gotten together, it would be a huge ... (261 words)

I think he may like me but he's married and expecting a child!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some serious help!!! Ok, there is this guy I talk to. We're friends...sort of. He's married and his wife is pregnant. She's in another country. I met him through another friend. And we kind of started talking. I like him, but I know its wrong. And he's talking to one o... (84 words)

If female nudity was not commercially exploited, would there be more cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's one for the guys...and women if you want to comment too!.... If there were no such thing as media, porn, dirty magazines, playboy, Hooters restaurants, or any exploitation of sexual suggestion, etc., if strip clubs were never invented, and female nudity in general ... (129 words)

One day passed after the break up - and I'm sorry for the things that will never happen... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - It has been one day since I broke if off with my boyfriend - I am kinda lost and dont know what to do - does anyone have any advice on how to keep moving and not be thinking about him? I knew I was going to be second guessing about the breakup - but he already bought a... (362 words)

Will having sex with this woman make me stop yearning for her, alleviate this sexual frustration so I can focus on my marriage?...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (F)

age - I'm getting concerned about my sexual feelings for my wife, as I've been strongly attracted to a very attractive and wholesome woman at work, and I came to learn she feels the same as me, and she is also married. There has been no sex between us and there probably won't be a... (136 words)

I used her, and I regret it! What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My uncle always told me "Think With The Right Head". Today I didn't. Ok so its been a long time since ive been close to a girl and i miss that feeling. and then today me and my friend were hanging out. I originally planned to give her something but we ended up hanging out for a ... (175 words)

I am not sure what is causing these drunken angers towars him...

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11 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently 22, 7 months into my first relationship. Things are going great, we have tons of fun together and get along wonderfully. The only problem comes with "going out" to bars and such. I used to go to bars all the time but as of late I feel like I have settled down. ... (307 words)

Did she really do it or was she just lying to me?

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11 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Well over xmas period just gone i was having a very rough time at work and stress levels wise,and i started to become paranoid of my gf of 7 years as i noticed minor things around the house and subtle changes in her behaviuor,anyway when confronted with thi... (299 words)

Does my jealous ex want me back?

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11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help? I was going out with this guy i broke up with him cuz of his jealousy and anger problems. however he never stopped calling until one day i met with him and i had a friend with me who he is a guy.. my ex started getting mad telling my friend i am player and i am ... (156 words)

My boyfriend does not believe me about the person who harasses me by phone!

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11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok this is the thing, my ex broke-up with me because he wanted to help a friend and let her stay with him and I freaked. I said if some girl was going to stay with him i was gone! so he broke up with me and lied about it for a month. after i found out, he said he didnt want... (169 words)

How can I put his mind at ease that he won't hurt me during sex?

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11 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - The last time we (me and my boyfriend) had a sexual encounter, we were very rough (the way we both like it, no actual pain). He is also bigger than my last boyfriend (girth wise). Anyhow, I ended up with a case of 'honeymoon cystitis', I believe it was called, and had to g... (102 words)

My boyfriend is the least popular in the class and I have to face nasty comments for dating him! What should I do?

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11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is the least popular kid in the class and everybody is like,"ur really going out with him?!" and I don't know what to do because it's really bugging me and I dont want to dump him. What should I do?... (42 words)

My girlfriend lied about where she was last week. Should I drop the matter apologising for snooping or push the subject to find out more?

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11 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, i've been dating this girl for just over a year and i just caught her in a lie. Last week i was at work and she told me she was going horseback riding which didn't bother none cause that's what she loves to do. Only today i decided to get snoopy and check out her texts (onl... (430 words)

Why is all the good not remembered, just my inadequacy?

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11 May 2008 (M)

age - many years of being loving and loyal in a marriage, does it really matter? being disabled leaving me lacking in the intimacy department, so it is not as often as it use to be, i thought i was living a life of love,but now she says it is not enough. she knew before she ... (84 words)

He isn't shy in e-mails, but totally shy in real-life. Why? How can I get him to loosen up?

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11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is really mushy in emails and stuff, but not so much in real life. What should I do to get him to stop being so shy?... (29 words)

I have a huge crush on my older previous mentor, but she thinks it would be a conflict. Help!

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11 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old married women and I am hopelessly in love with a much older married woman (60) who used to me my mentor at work. I recently left my job because I thought it would be a conflict of interest if we ended up getting together. I don't know if she has feelings for ... (110 words)

She's acting a little differently than usual, and doesn't say I love you as much...Why is that?

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11 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles you see i have a question.I have this amazing girl! (she's 17 i'm 18) she is always says i love you but not as she used to say it idk maybe it's just me but she would always say to that she will call me but she forgets alot.(we been together for 6 monthes ... (175 words)

How do I get better at small talk with strangers?

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11 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - As much as I try, when I meet new people have trouble making small talk. Part of it also relates to my confidence (nearly non-existent). What are some good topics that don't make me look overly friendly? And how do I generally improve my confidence and social skills, I've bee... (60 words)

How do you break up with a guy when you're just not sure why you want to do it?

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11 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I really liked his guy and then when i started to date him I stopped he he done nothing wrong but I don't like him anymore and I have no clue why but I am going to break up with him cause I dont like him anymore how do I do it (break up with him) what do i say and how... (62 words)

I feel really great about myself...except for my body. I'm so upset, how can I cope?

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11 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I'm glad to say I've been improving my self esteem. As a result, I'm less jealous of other girls, and less envious (baout their personalities, or how well they do in school, their talents, things like that). I feel better, as I know I'm worth a lot, and I'm amazing in many ways ... (641 words)

She stole him from me and I don't plan on ever talking to her again. Am I over-reacting?

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11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well ive been seeing this guy since august last year. and well basically my best friend has taken him of me. she liked some guy in her work he doesnt like her . She knows how much i like this guy and she pure hits on him and stuff infront of me. Last night we were all up... (179 words)

She said it was 99% right, but something was missing...What does that mean?

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11 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Over the last month I have been in touch with a woman from a dating website. We have clicked really well on emails and then on the phone when we can be on for up to 3 hours at a time. We both felt that we 'get eachother'. We met today for the first time and had a... (285 words)

She says she really likes me, but she loves that guy and says she can't get over him.

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11 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Basically I've been having this on and off relationship with someone for 8 months now. The problem is she was/is in a long distance relationship with someone from another country that she only sees once a year. He was her first b/f, practically first everything. She's very con... (101 words)

What sort of things will make a girl "horny"?

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11 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend claims she's never been "horny" which both kinda slaps me in the face and worries me. Firstly cause, we've done stuff (not sex or oral but stuff) and if none of its made her horny then i dunno what will. Can you help in that aspect? Secondly cause i feel she... (96 words)

Why are westeners so prejudice, ignorant Bible lovers?

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11 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I grew up in one of the biggest cities in North America. I’ve accepted baseball and McDonalds, but what I can't accept are there BS " morals ". Whenever it comes to love, sex or any other issue people turn to the book of lies, distortion and general propaganda, The Bible. T... (362 words)

What's a corsage, where would I get one, and how much?

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11 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - People suggested for prom a corsage. What is it? How much? Where from in uk?... (15 words)

My new downstairs neighbour is storing her urine in the house for her compost bin, and it's making me sick!!

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11 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help. My new downstairs neighbour is storing her urine in the house for her compost bin. Smells so bad. I am so worried. I live in a council house, converted into up and down flats. New neighbour moves in, bad smell. I have lived here for 5 years with my cat never ... (206 words)

How can I make money to help out my mum and dad?

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11 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The price for gas is going up, Food prices are going up, basically everything costs more! So, my mom and dad are getting low on money. But i'm a responsible and GROWING 13 year old [ha] and i'm tired of asking my mom and dad. Plus, summer is coming up. But I'm not old enough t... (71 words)