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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't think she fancies me, how do I stop liking her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I like my friend. We are close. We talk a bit, but I don't know if she likes me. She sends me pics of hear wearing new outfits and asks my opinion. She was tellin me bout this guy who liked her, and she turned him down. So she feels free talk to me bout stuff like that. I enjoy ... (80 words)

Can I go on with my boyfriend if I'm falling for someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is in love with me. I love him too. But I know there is someone else out there for me. I am beginning to like his team mate who told me he likes me and would like to go out with me. But, I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. What should I do? Can I go on with my ... (69 words)

I loved her even though she was extremely cold and unresponsive! How can I get over this break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll cant promise I'll keep this short. I promise I wont ramble, however. Me and my long-distance girlfriend had been having problems making time to see eachother. She was also extremely cold, and completely a-sexual. She cited saving sexual activities for marriage, and sh... (1353 words)

Ever since we became friends he has stopped initiating things. Why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and this guy were really close...but then we decided that we were better off as friends because of the type of relationship we had we could talk about anything. and i came off as one of his friends. so thats why we decided to be just friends. but thing is ever since ... (187 words)

I'm in love with her but she denied my feelings. She insists we stay friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (?)

- Hello, I am a female in love with another female. The woman I am in love with has denyed she feels the same way. However I am convinced she does feel the same way, but because she is married and because of other circumstances she is not admitting it to me. She has told me that ... (268 words)

Is this a yeast infection or an STD? Please help, it's the first time I had sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help ! discharge ! im 16 and have just lost my virgity... (yes i used a condom) :) usually i barly have any discharge... but for the last week, iv had loads of thick white, non smelling discharge constantly ! im extreamly worryed. im not going to tell my mum... (99 words)

What can I do for my boyfriend to really turn him on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi This one's for the guys (or maybe girls, you can tell me about positive/successful experience?) Now, if I wanted to spend an evening/day showing my man a good time what would you recommend? I'm up for anything, but penetration is not allowed. I want to tease him and... (106 words)

If I lost her do to my shady sexual history, I'd be devastated! Should I reveal what I've done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've recently started a relationship with the most amazing woman I've ever met. Things are better than I could have ever imagined and have ever been with anyone else and I'm certain we are both deeply in love with each other. The problem is that often I feel intensely guilty... (260 words)

My boyfriend has been lying to me about money and other girls. How can I cope with all of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - help please help!!! i just dont know what to do at the moment. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we've lived together for 2 months. things seem to have gone from bad to worse with us, i found that he has been talking to other girls on the internet and i suspect ... (342 words)

I don't want to be with my live-in girlfriend anymore, as I'm interested in someone else! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a crisis of conscience and I'm in a very sticky situation!! I having been with my current girlfriend since November. I knew her for quite a while before we got together. She moved in with me after a couple of months because she was having a lot of arguments with her ... (307 words)

Confused, and wondering about my commitment to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a 19 year old female who has been in a serious relationship for almost 2 years now. Give our age difference (he's 30), he's been one of the most wonderful guys i've ever dated. But starting at the beiginning of this year, I started to question things.... (269 words)

I love her, and I want to have sex with her, but I don't want to ruin the relationship!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok my gf is a virgin and has never really liked fooling around bc she thinks it makes her seen not pure and like a slut.. well she's wanting to now and last night she was a drunk but before she started drinking she asked me if i would have sex with her and that she wanted me to ... (331 words)

She didn't email when she said she would, what should I make of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I met a girl in my guidance class at my college and we have exchanged email to each other last friday. I kind of like this girl and i told her to email me. After 2:00 PM, I did email her about emailing me after 6:00 PM because I was eating my dinner at 5:00. Finally, when I ... (105 words)

My crush took my number, now what do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My crush just took my number and he said he would call me in a few hours..god!!!! I am so nervous..what do i talk about? How do i make the conversation interesting so that he likes me too???... (38 words)

I'm in love with one of my friends, I want to tell her, but don't know where to start!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I'm gonna get straight to the point I'm in love with one of my friends, and she's the same sex as me I have been for about a year now, but I can't tell her I really want to, I just dont know where to start Can anyone help me, give me tips, or anything? Much app... (68 words)

Do I have boundary issues with my teacher?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, would appreciate some advice please :-) In your opinion is it morally wrong to be very close friends with your teacher? He is male and around 40, Im 16 and female, and I will admit that I do have romantic feelings for him. However, Ive accepted that I can't act on the... (385 words)

I'm getting nuisance calls, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

- My question is a bit strange but it is something that has been bothering me for a long time. Ok, it all started bout 8 months ago, i fell out with my bitchy best mate. A few weeks later i started getting anonymous phone calls, the number would always be withheld and the... (168 words)

Should I include her in my future or not??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About 6 months ago i met this really great girl through the internet. We met on a dating site, but we were there just to find people to chat with (wasn't strictly at dating site) because we had both just come to terms with our sexuality. Anyways over the 6 months we have beco... (436 words)

I insulted my crush, how can I make things better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy since i was at primary, even though he is a year older than me. When i got to high school i started to fall for him. When he found out how i felt he started ignoring me. I asked him the other day online why he was ignoring me. He wouldn't answer, so i kept ... (128 words)

I went through his phone and he had been 'dirty talking' to some girl through texts.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do. I feel so hurt and trapped. I love my fiance more than anything in the world we've been together for just over a year and we've gotten engaged recently. We live together and everything has seemed perfect but just a few days ago I went through his phon... (210 words)

I want her back as a partner, not a friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance' and I were together for 4 years. We have split and come back a few times, but recently she decided that it was time to end it for good. She still wants to be friends, but I still love her and wish her back. Is there anyway that I can get her back to me and in my li... (70 words)

I don't love her as much, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What should i do if i don't love my girlfriend as much as i used to? Should i break up with her or just stay with her?... (28 words)

He says he needs space...so why is he seeing someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend told me he needed space and is seeing someone else. He still calls me, comes over, we go to dinner, etc. I love him so much and I don't know what to do. Should I just let him go? My heart seriously hurts everyday that I am not with him.... (61 words)

I deserve to be punished, I know, but please help me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all, please help me, i am so afraid that my wife will find out about a fling i had with a woman a few months back. I love my wife with all my heart and am so upset, because i made a stupid, stupid mistake and i just cant forgive myself for what i have done. My wife is a won... (249 words)

I am so horribly confused - I cannot bear to see him hurting so badly.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age - Ralph and I were married in 2001 - then divorced in 2004 because he moved in with his ex-wife and daughter. Early 2005, he moved back in with me. We lived together as man and wife in all ways except the bedroom. We slept in different rooms and never had sex (once a year, ... (360 words)

Masturbation. Can anybody confirm my fears, or is it all just a big lie?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm a little concerned. People say that you can Masturbate as often as you want and it's not a problem. But I heard about a condition you can get if you do it too often. I forget the name of it, but all I know is I don't want to get it. Recently I've been doing it a lot mo... (124 words)

My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is really hard for me i havent e... (501 words)

I still can't get over him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello again people..my names _______ and my boyfriend for 1 year just broke up with like 2 months ago and i still can't get over him..i thought i was but other nite was prom and i seen him and when i looked at him he jsut liked stared at me..idk wat to do..it makes me feel like ... (93 words)

My boyfriend makes me do things I don't want to do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf always wana let me do stuff i dont wanna do like sex and smoke i told him i dont wanna do these things but then we together again and he says he wont do it again but he just does and i realy love him what should i do cause we realy love each other... (57 words)

I'm shy about my underarm hair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi iam ------- i need help when my friends go swimming i feel shy getting my clothes off i think theyll make fun off me im the only one who has under arm hair they are all normal what should i do?????... (44 words)

Do these feelings mean I'm a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i was going shopping with my mates and i saw a lesbian couple kissing and i was all confused cuz i had never thought about that before well not really and i had this funny feeling all inside. when i got home that night i was a bit board so i went on a site and oh god ... (117 words)

Should I just let this go and completely forgive him and believe that I'm the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a weird situation and I don't know how should I feel... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He loves me a great deal, as he supported me through depression, always does his best to make me feel special and is very sweet and romantic, he has... (701 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex? I always have to do it and if I dont initiate the sex then we never have sex! I know he likes having sex with me but I always have to actually start it. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets offended and starts an argu... (83 words)

Why have I still not got a boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, Okay... I feel like a pathetic 17 year old- ive never had a bf.. I used to be a bit of an ugly duckling, but I've grown into myself more, gained some confidense ect, that was 2 years ago...why have I still not got a bf? There have been so many guys Ive liked but I nev... (90 words)

I'm feeling unbelievable lust for this man other than my husband. What are your thoughts on open marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I am married to a wonderful man for 7 years now. We have 3 wonderful kids. I was out with my girlfriend and met this Brad Pitt look-alike from Brazil. He is so amazing in so many different ways. In the heat of the moment i shared with him a unbelievable kiss that will ... (142 words)

I'm 6 weeks pregnant and getting cramps, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well a couple of weeks ago i found out i was pregnant, im getting sum symptoms and all that and i hered you can get cramps but mine are really painfull, on and off, just wondering if this is normal, im 6 weeks pregnant, 18 years old and just need sum advise really, thanks a... (57 words)

My parents want me to finish with him, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my mum has met my boyfriend and thinks hes okay . shes not sure weather she likes him because he lives in a rough part or our area . my dad has never met him , but dosnt like like '' at all '' and hes saying to me every day that ive been out with him that i have a week to ... (119 words)

Is there anything I can do or am I just forced to stay on the sidelines?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex dated for 2 years 10 months ago, I still have very strong feelings for him, and he has a girlfriend, but has given me plenty of mixed signals. We're still friends, and I see him every now and then because I'm friends with one of his best friends. Problem is I want ... (125 words)

My boyfriend calls me names around his friends, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello , i have bin with m? bo?friend for around 6 month and now we're getting abit serious . but when hes with his cousins and mates well , he acts different and i know that hes only joking and messing around but when he calls me likee '' silly slag'' and everthing well it ... (154 words)

We both tested positive for Clamydia, does this mean she cheated?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girlfriend for one year. We recently got tested and we tested positive for chlamydia. I have never cheated on her and I know it can be symptomless for a while. Funny thing is, I had my symptoms a couple of days after her. I feel this is unusual because ... (143 words)

He doesn't seem to care if I was abused as a child but I love him with all my heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I told my boyfriend i was sexually abused as a child one night when we were both drunk... he was so upset over it i actually saw him cry and i took comfort in getting it off my chest... however sometimes i feel very isolated and upset, and want to talk to someone about it... he ... (256 words)

Where does your confidence come from? Any tips on improving my self-confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know this is going to seem like a really random question but it would really help to have some ideas. I have always suffered from confidence issues and have low self esteem, though I have no reason to feel underconfident or inadequate. So my question is...where does... (86 words)

I'd like to take things a bit further but don't really know how to ask him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for six months and we are very happy together. I want to take things a little bit further with him but I'm not sure if he wants to and I don't really know how to ask him. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks in advance. =] x... (57 words)

Is he embarassed to hold my hand? He says he will but never does!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, well I know it sais I'm like 16-18 or something but I am not I am 13-15 ...anyway here goes I have a boyfriend and we have been seeing each other for about a month now, I have very strong feelings for him and he's told me he feels the same, the only thing is we haven't ... (169 words)

When is the most likely time in your cycle to get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey I'm just wondering, when is the most likely time in your menstrual cycle to get pregnant?... (17 words)

He's broken up with me for good this time, how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get over a broken heart, my boyfriend broke up with me 6 weeks ago and since then I've sunken back into a depression. This is the second time he has done this but we got back together the last time. he says this time we won't.... I have suffered from depression and ... (91 words)

He is the boy of my dreams, but now my mom has decided that I'm going to move to live with her. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My dad and mum divorced 9 years ago when I was 6, since then until now I've lived with my dad and his new wife in another country, while my mum lived in England with no money. During all these years, my stepmum has made my life hell. Now I'm almost 16 and my mom has decided I ... (117 words)

I don't know what to do when I'm on top!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - PROBLEM: I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO WHEN IM ON TOP!! I am 18 years old, I been having sex for a few years now and I would love to be in-control on top of the guy but when it comes to it I just dont know what to do.... What ever I seem to do it dont really give the guy or me pleas... (93 words)

Being single and how not to be it...advice appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, to put it simply, I have been single but, oh around 6 months and now I'm kinda ready to start out again. But I have no idea what the heck to do. Its not like I havent really avoided relationships, I just haven't really tried. The issue is A; I have serious emotiona... (214 words)

I'm concerned about his drinking! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm going to be 18 soon, I've been in this relationship for almost 7 months, I love my b/f and he loves me,the problem is he drinks alcohol almost everyday, he do this just to impress his friends, I told him to stop, but he would'nt listen to me. What to do, I dont want to ... (62 words)

Is he waiting for me to get better or has he moved on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (?) age 51-59 - Sorry, this is a long post. Just trying to clear certain things up in my head I guess. I was with my ex-partner for 18years, 10 of which we lived together. We never married, and never had children. But we were saving money for a house and were trying to get pregnant. U... (1225 words)

How long is too long on a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I split up just over a month ago after 18 months to have some time apart etc. She said she did want to get back with me eventually. Its been a month and all she says is that she doesnt want a bf at the moment however I still see her and she tells me that she loves me ... (124 words)

Has any one ever had a fling, and regretted it as much as I do? And what did you do about it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) age 41-50 - hi all, please help me, i am so afraid that my husband will find out about a fling i had with a man a few months back. I love my husband with all my heart and am so upset, because i made a stupid, stupid mistake and i just cant forgive myself for what i have done. My husban... (262 words)

Kissed this guy, but now my close friend told me she really DOES like him, should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've done something terrible. On the weekend I kissed this guy who a close friend really really liked a few months ago, and he messed her around, and the reason we are so close now is because she spoke to me about it all the time, and about how she was falling in love with him. ... (95 words)

Is she cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Really haven't got a clue where to start with this, my head is just in such a mess. But I hope there is someone on here that can help me , because I just don’t know what to do any more. Suppose I'd better start with some background information. Me and my Girlfriend have ... (483 words)

Why can't I say I love them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, It’s not a major problem as such. I can’t tell my boyfriend I love him and I also have issues telling my parents I love them as well. I don’t know why, I can’t explain it (I imagine my life without them and obviously its unbearable), it upsets everyone involved. Can... (81 words)

My boyfriend is obsessed with me - or is it real love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf is starting to be obsessed with me i think. seems like he only wants me for himself. is this really a good thing and if he really loves me like he always say....should i just accept his behaviour or does that mean he's love for me is actually not real love? we've be... (83 words)

I am in love with two people

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive came to a real dilema. I have fallen in love with two people. What am I supposed to do? How do I possibly choose? Please help me. Its giving me sleepless nights.... (33 words)

Yellow discharge - is it a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im just wondering why i had a yellow discharge? is it normal? am i sick? thanks 4 ur answer.... (20 words)

Is a 4" penis sufficient?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am with 4" penis is it sufficient for sex?... (10 words)

My dad says TV rots your brain, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My Dad says T.V rots your brain, what do you think?... (11 words)

Did someone perform some sexual act on him to 'last blow his load'? Because it obviously wasn't me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please I need some help before I start pulling my hair out!! And i'm sorry but i'm going to be blunt there's no beating around the bush with this one. Ok some background info I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years we have a good relationship, no betrayal... (195 words)

I need help arranging a threesome as a gift for my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and I wanna have a threesome with another women. Not a friend, just an anynomous hottie. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend and I love eachother very much and our sex life is amazing, but I wanna give this to him as a gift I guess. ... (121 words)

Please help me stop this obsession with my teacher!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've posted this story on a lot of different sites, but I always lie about at least one part because I'm ashamed. I'm going to be honest. I am Madly in love with my teacher. My female teacher, the same gender as me, (that's one thing I sometimes deny) She is married with... (1029 words)

Is he too young to want the sort of commitment I'm looking for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Okay, I need your advice to keep from feaking out the b/f anymore than I already have... So I'm a 24 year old woman dating a 20 year old who appears quite serious about me. We've been dating for 2 years and we've had our ups and downs, but we're still very committed to one... (362 words)

Why do people get put off more by gay men than women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. good day! I just want to hear some opinions/comments from people from different sides of the world. It's just that i observe the general community here and even the world (in general) in how they accept homosexuals. Would people agree with me when i say that people k... (172 words)

Should I cancel my trip to see ld boyfriend? he said he is unsure about our future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm planning a trip to visit my boyfriend he lives in the UK. We have been together for 8yrs but have been long distance for the last three years. My last visit was about a month ago and he told me he is uncertain about us getting married. According to him, "i dont have the... (119 words)

We flirted then wanted to meet, but we got waylaid, now she's got someone else, should I keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A while ago I met this guy on an online community. We became close friends and eventually even more. It was then that I decided it would be best to let him know I was actually a girl, with a male avatar (kind of a role playing community). He understand...and it was then that I ... (285 words)

Is 17 too young to know you have found "the one"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I know what everyone is going to say when I ask this question but is 17 to young to find the one? Me and my boyfreind are very matture then most other couple and so happy, everyday just keeps getting better with him , so what im asking is can it be love at this age?? Has ... (73 words)

He started to change and become restrictive. Am I just an awful girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend is so jealous/upset/dissapointed because of my past. It happened gradually... she knew about some stuff (past crushes, etc) when we started dating. It didn't bother him much then, he just asked me not to give him details, to talk about it the less I could. He knows ... (403 words)

Can someone please tell me how to trust my boyfriend? He's cheated in the past.

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have really bad trust issuses with my boyfreind, the problem is he has never done anything to betray my trust. My ex boyfreind cheated on me so much and i never found out till we had broken up...Im jsut worride my boyfreind is doing the same. Even if it is a little thing like ... (134 words)

Do guys prefer curves?

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I was wondering if some guy could please explain to me why do they prefer curves over thin girls?? I have got curves and sometimes worride that guys wont find me attractive...What kinda chicks do guys really like? ... (44 words)

What should I do if I don't like my boyfriend as much as I used to?

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well wat if i dont like my boyfriend as much as i use to but im afraid to break up with him because i know how it will be with out him it will be very different no more holdin hands or talking on the fone for a long time or even having a boyfriend untill like high school my ... (68 words)

He says we are too dependent on each other. Now, he's distancing himself!

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my best friend and i fell in love and started dating a few months later we realized we couldnt go ahead with it coz of very strong external influences (family..our families would not hav let us be together) so we decided to let it go and stay bestfriends, its been a yr and a ... (180 words)

Can someone help me understand his behaviour?

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy (Ulises) July of 2007 to Nov. 2007. We had a really ugly break-up and did not talk to eachother. Until the middle of Feb, 2008. He apologized many times for all the things that he did and the way that we broke up. I had decided to give him a chance to see if he ... (344 words)

Things are starting to fade, what can I do?

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12 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and i can't help but feel as if things are starting to fade. Well before I met her i really liked this other girl who is my best female friend aside from my girlfriend. About a month ago I told her that i liked her and she ... (193 words)

My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make matters worse the OW fell pregnant... (514 words)

Should I end my friendship with my ex to make my boyfriend feel more secure in our relationship?

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I married my high school sweetheart before he deployed to Iraq. Predictably, our young age and the effects of him being at war destroyed our marriage. We ended up divorcing in 2006. Despite that, we still remain best friends. Now I'm a new relationship. My current boyfrien... (194 words)

Where is the Moral Outrage?

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12 May 2008 (?) age - This question is directed to the Bible thumpers out there and you know who you are. About the so totally holy and super sacred institution of marriage. When two dudes get married the marriage is between one man and one woman brigades crap their collective pants and run in ... (193 words)

My girfriend broke up with me but still hasn't moved out, why?

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12 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - so i was seeing this girl for a few months, felt we really connected. we moved in way to soon she needed to stay for a bit while she looked for a new place, and eventually we both agreed we enjoyed living together. that was after 2 months, soon i know. After three months we ... (478 words)

Is 21 too young to know if you've found 'The One'?

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - is 21 too young to know if you have found "the one"? I spent my whole life thinking I didn't believe in marriage, or I didnt want kids. Now I have been in the most amazing relationship for a year and a half and that has all changed. I don't want marriage or kids this minute, ... (179 words)

I support my boyfriend financially and also lend his Mum money too now. I don't know what to do, any suggestions?

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been supporting my boyfriend financially for three years now, to the point I lend his mom money because she can't manage her own money. I don't want to break up with him because he stuck with me through very difficult times, but when I tell him to find a job he gets very ... (99 words)

My boyfriend says he doesn't like kids but I have a 4 year od son. Can you advise?

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I have been in a relationship for about a year and half. I love being with him, he is amazing. Although he has met my 4 year old son a few times, I don't like to bring him around because I'm afraid that my son may get attached and, if we don't work out, I ... (147 words)

I confessed my feelings to my crush but am not sure what to make of his actions since!

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My crush went on a temporary duty 2 months ago ( he's military) before he left I said I was a silly girl who cares about him and that wanted to keep in touch with him. He replied that he was definitely be in touch at his return. Well, he did. He sent me a message asking h... (167 words)

How do I find out if she like me without letting on I like her?

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12 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - goin shoppin next week with my friend who I think I like. First time we goin alone jus for a few things anythin I cud do to test her if she likes me without giving the teeniest hint I do? Cud I buy her a meal? Cofee? Nythin?... (48 words)

So here is me. I just sit on my bottom, doing nothing at home most of the time.

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12 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So here is me. I just sit on my bottom, doing nothing at home most of the time. I want to do something this summer. I've never had a G/F, and I really don't care for one, but i always think it would be nice to have someone sweet te be there in your life at least once. So ... (113 words)

Major problem, where are we going to live?

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my husband and he me, but we have one major problem, where we are going to live, it is creating problems for us both as I am going out of my mind what to do. We are both from different countries in Europe, i uk and him Spain. I have been in spain now over 3 months, b... (200 words)

We've done nothing but fight for the last few months, should we still go on our anniversary trip to Rome?

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12 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I don`t know what to do! My girlfriend of one year and myself have done nothing but fight for the last few months. When it`s good it`s great but I am just so unhappy about us clashing all the time. My heart is telling me to just give up. I`m confused. We are going to Rome ... (77 words)

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently in a healthy relationship with a guy that does not live nearby. He has visited me numerous times and we spent every minute we can talking (whether it be on the phone or online). I'm in love, and he is too. He's very into sex. He completely respects my choi... (251 words)

My mum thinks I just started my periods, but I've had them for 6 months.

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i got my first period in Dec 2007. My mom's only just found out {i don't really care that she knows} but i just didn't know how to tell her. She bought me pads and told me i need to keep track and stuff...but i don't know how tell tell her i have already had my p... (63 words)

I'm too scared to tell him about my past in case he doesn't want to see me anymore.

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12 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I married when i was 22 (i'm now 27). I was with the guy for 5 years and we have been separated 3 years now. It was an amicable separation, we just grew apart and were too young I guess and rushed into it. I've started seeing this guy who I really like and can see a fu... (220 words)